I am only 33 and I have a lack of sex drive and have no idea why?!

I am only 33 and I have a lack of sex drive and have no idea why?

I am 33, male, and married with 2 kids. For the last 5 years or so I have basically had a very very limited sex drive. I love my wife, and I have a great life, I am just not interested in sex. If it was up to me I seriously wouldn't have sex at all, and when I do, it takes a while for me to get an erection. And it's not just my wife. I don't feel like I want to be with someone else, I don't look at porn, I don't masturbate, I really just have no sex drive. What the hell is wrong with me?

Go to your Doctor and get a complete and thorough Physical. BE TOTALLY HONEST ABOUT THE PROBLEM.

This happened with my Husband and he refused to go for years and years and finally learned he had diabetes. Lose of sex drive is a big side effect. We have been married 40 years and this began almost immediately. It was miserable sticking it out.

So please for your marriages sake go check it out and find out what the problem is. It is slightly easier to deal with if it is a medical problem than if a husband is just not interested.

Good Luck.