Intimate advice... is he "too much" for me?!

Intimate advice... is he "too much" for me?

me and my beloved long-term boyfriend are doing really well, except the past couple times we had sex it was really uncomfortable. he is quite well endowed, if you know what i mean, but its never been a problem before. he and i have always been a perfect fit. only now... it hurts and is extremely uncomfortable. i dont know if this sounds stupid, but he feels bigger. nothing else seems different, nothing has really changed, except i dont get to see him as often. maybe he just gets REALLY hard now, but again.. i dont see how things could change so suddenly.

input pa-lease!

4 weeks ago
no, he isnt taking any sort of enhancement. he sort of prides himself on going without. he has never had a need to have something artificial help him out.

4 weeks ago
our intimate relationship is VERY healthy and developed. we dont have sex unless we both want to... therefor my personal lubrication is never lacking. we dont use anything to "help us", no gels, creams, lubricants, enhancers or anything like that. Just love.

Men think large endowments are a blessing - in fact they are a curse. You have to be more careful when making love, you cannot 'abandon yourself' to the act, you have to stay more in control, to avoid causing pain.

Maybe with the long breaks he's just not as controlled. Maybe you are not getting excited enough, and you are drier than normal.

You might want to switch to positions where you are more in control of things (on top for example) and use a personal lubricant.