Am I being unfair when I ask my boyfriend to?!


Question:

Am I being unfair when I ask my boyfriend to?

I hate being an unfair person. I am not sure what is right so I figuired I would go straight to the male populace.

Is it wrong for me to ask my boyfriend not to look at porn? It kinda makes me jealous. So I guess I just need some reassurance that porn is not so bad. Or maybe at least a good reason why I should ask him to stop, if in fact you think it is wrong.

please help me I am confused.


Answers:

so...
I think the thing that bothers women about their boyfriends watching porn is that they will feel inferior and forgotten.

Afraid that when he sees these gorgeous bodies he'll think:
"woah she's fuckin hot, I wish I was the one doing her."
"wow she's so much hotter than <your name here>"
"I wish I was having sex with her rather than my <your name here"

Or you could also be afraid that while (if) you and him have sex, then he will think of these other girls.

It makes sense, but its not really that complex.
When guys look at porn, they don't think about you at all.
Which may sound bad at first, but think about it:
all their attention is focused on how good it feels (masturbating?), and they just need all the visual stimulation they can get to reach their peak.
The girls they see, yes they are in their mind WHEN they see them, and they have all their nasty thoughts about them, but its an "out of sight, out of mind" thing.
characters in porn are not really looked at as people, more as a visual representation of his fantasies.
its just a good level for him to get even further turned on.

Basically, youre in a different category than these visual pornpeople, and when he is with them, youre not in his mind at all, he's horny, and he's not really thinking at all.
just focused on his pleasure.

There's no reason to get jealous, when he has sex with you, his attention is all on you. Really, its probably hard for him to think of anyone else when he has this chick right in front of him.

You enter his mind as soon as he finishes, and those other girls leave it, because they have no use for him anymore.

I wouldnt bring it up, he might feel awkward.
Hope this helps! =]




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