Guys...My Bf told me he wishes I had a 24" waist and 38" hips :(?!

Guys...My Bf told me he wishes I had a 24" waist and 38" hips :(?

my stats are 36-27-36...i always thought i was in great shape and was proud at the fact that i worked hard into getting my weight down some years back (i was overweight as a teen)...then one day he says this, actually he mentioned it twice :(
...he wishes my waist was a 24 and that my hips were wider because that's his idea of the 'ideal woman'...i always thought mine were wide enough at 36...it really depresses me...are some men really that horrid??? since he said that i can't help but obsess about getting fat sucked off my waist and implants in my butt....God, I feel so dumb for letting his insensitive comments bother me! Why does he say these things?

4 weeks ago
actually he seemed like a genuine nice guy with good morals and etc at first, we've been going out for 7 months, no sex yet...because i believe in abstaining frm sex until engagement atleast, and he told me he believes in this principle too...thats why we ended up together i guess....

4 weeks ago
i mean i know it's normal for guys to 'fantasize' about their 'ideal' body type...but can't he just keep his fantasies to himself instead of belittling me this way?? i find it insulting because i've had lots of guys ask me out and the guys i used to go out it have never said anything this mean :(

wow.. that would really upset me, i wouldnt even wanna stay with this guy if i were you, if he loves u ur looks and body shouldnt matter that much to him. those comments were definitely out of place, no one should say that, esp to a girl, let alone their girlfriend. dont even care about what he said. people these days expect women to look like models out there and half the time those models arent even really those sizes. i think your stats are great! i personally wish i had something like 36 hips, and i tell my boyfriend how i feel too but he just tells me he loves my body and my little hips and makes me feel great about myself. if my boyfriend has in the past ever said something that offended me i let him know. i talk to him and say " the other day when we were talking it kinda hurt my feelings when you said....it makes me feel like...(you dont appreciate my body...or however u feel)" sometimes he's totally not aware that it hurt my feelings and sometimes he suddenly realizes "wow..im so sorry, i can say stupid things sometimes" so i think you should let ur bf know how u feel and just dont take into account what he said about u. Good luck, and dont dwell on this. :)