HELP...what is a girl to do?!

HELP...what is a girl to do?

the guy i'm dating is depressed all the time, he doesn't care if he lives or dies...he won't go to any doctors or talk to anyone .....I try to talk to him and show/tell him all the things he has to be grateful for and that he should be happy but he tells me that being happy its easier said than done........I tell him to think about all the people who love and him ...how can I help him see all the fun in life... all that life had to offer.. how do I get him to enjoy life and have a will to live.. I want to help him find something to live for....no i don't think he will commit suicide because he is a muslim and he said he would never do that because that is the greatest sin of all... but it just seems like hes just waiting to die... I want to help him want to live...I want him to look forward to everyday.. its so sad .. I want to help him find happiness..I just want to help him.....HELP.. and suggestions?

4 weeks ago
He's in his mid 20's... owns a bar...has his own car and home...volunteers...he is blessed.. but he explains I wouldn't be such a happy person if i've been through what he been through....a lot of his close friends have died....his father was arrested and taken away from him when he was a young boy.... he believes his mother doen't care about him...he was given up by is mother at a young age...but still talks to her....he has parkinson disease..

4 weeks ago
I don't want to give up on him it just seems like he's been through soo much .. I just want to help

It's a lot for you to handle for a girl at your age. Recently one of my relatives goes into depression because of some health concern. Even though it has been proven that his health is 100% OK several weeks ago, he is still recovering from his depression. He has emotion swing, wants to talk to people about his conditions, and analyzing things over and over again to the point people close to him feel it's draining as well.
I can't tell from your question whether the situation with your guy has been like that for a while or it's something recent. I feel he needs continuing family and friends support (probably from you) as well as professional help. They will determine if medication is needed for his case.
Does this guy have any religous belief? If so, he might want to get help from that angle as well.
Support and encouragement, sometimes medication are the ways to help this guy. It will take a lot from you as well. So be prepared and don't get discouraged.