How do I control premature ejaculation?!
Question:
How do I control premature ejaculation?
I want to be able to satisfy my wife. But, whenever we are in "the act", it just feels so good and I can't hold back. I try to picture other things in my mind, but nothing helps. Any suggestions???
Answers:
I would suggest going in the opposite direction. Pay attention to your feelings (and hers). Learn your own signals. You can slow down or withdraw if you are getting close to orgasm. Eventually you will learn to control this. Men who work at it can often delay ejaculation for hours during interocurse. You will also please your wife more if you don't focus exclusively on intercourse. Learn all the other ways of pleasing her, so that intercourse isn't the only tool in your belt.
If all else fails, condoms decrease sensitivity, and there are cremas that will do the same thing.
Good luck.