I think I've hurt my girlfriend, what should I do?!

I think I've hurt my girlfriend, what should I do?

My penis is 8 1/2 inches to 9 inches when hard...and its pretty damn fat too.
This is a problem. People complain that they want a bigger penis, but honestly a smaller one is so much better!
Big penises scare girls, and its damn near impossible for deepthroat!!

But seriously, lately my girlfriend has stopped having sex with me. She still show affection, so its not that, but I think I know whats wrong.
The last time we had sex we were roleplaynig 'rough sex' and I was pushed ******* inside her pretty fast...Im worried I might have hurt her.
She was gagged, so she couldnt scream (which was what she wanted), but after we came she seemed sorta...quiet...

What do you think I should say to her?
(Try and make it as un-embarrasing as you can)
Thanks x

4 weeks ago
I've said sorry, already...after i pulled out, cos I ripped the condom, I said sorry for it...then kissed her....where it was sore.
SHe said ti was ok, she enjoyed it....so I dunno.
(Shes not pregnant though, we already tested that) xx

4 weeks ago
Maybe another thing....she doesnt REALLY like swallowing my....goo.
She only tends to do it if shes really in the mood.
And the other day I got so carried away I gooed in her mouth....and she had to swallow...

Would that be upsetting her?
I didnt mean to go against her wishes, it just felt so nice!

Dude - you can't be insensitive to a girl's sensitivities and still expect her to be comfortable having sex with you.

About the oral incident - She doesn't like to swallow. Forcing her to swallow because it feels good to you makes sex enjoyable to you at her expense. Not a good move if you want her to trust having your c*ck in her mouth again. Apologise for this and tell her it won't happen again.

About the 'rough sex' incident - Make sure she is lubricated enough before you enter. It's not the size of your penis. A vagina can accommodate a baby. But if she was dry and you pushed it in her, it probably felt like a knife going into her vagina. Apologise for this and tell her you'll make sure she is ready before entering again.