Little help please..........?!
Question:
Little help please..........?
want to last longer in bed with my girlfriend and i have been thinking about taken some sort of benzocaine cream (used in some condoms to numb your penis to last longer) but unsure what kinda cream i should get. any ideas on what i can use or is this a bad idea??
Answers:
The problem with the cream is that it doesn't just work on you, it works on her as well, so she may not feel as much pleasure. I've use the condoms, but never the cream, and my fiancee doesn't like them. One thing that works is to stop yourself, but continue to stimulate her, while you "cool your jets." To be honest, I often think about sports, movies, or I focus on an MC Escher print I have on my wall, it distracts me enough to not think about my pleasure, but not so much that I stop her enjoyment.
Another idea are "male kegels" tightening the muscles that control your penis (think of the muscle you use to stop peeing before you're actually done) hold the contractions for a long second and repeat 10 times. Do this 4-5 times a day. You can do it anytime, because no one knows you're doing it, so at your desk at work, sitting in traffic, etc. I've noticed a slight improvement, but I don't do them as often as I told you, mainly because its tough to remember. Another idea all together is to get her really ramped up beforehand, so it doesn't take as long for her to orgasm, so it will seem like you lasted longer. Good luck, but I'd steer clear of the cream.