How can i help my boyfriend who has Retarded ejaculation (Delayed ejaculation)?!


Question:

How can i help my boyfriend who has Retarded ejaculation (Delayed ejaculation)?

He's very sensitive discussing this and I love him a lot and don't want to hurt his feelings but help him without making him feel like he's being helped but rather doing it all on his own.


Answers:

Hi,
Delayed ejaculation refers to an inhibition of ejaculation. The man is unable to ejaculate, either during intercourse, or with manual stimulation in the presence of a partner.

The main causees are

Most men ejaculate within 2 to 4 minutes after onset of active thrusting in intercourse. Men with retarded ejaculation may be entirely unable to ejaculate in some circumstances (for example, during intercourse), or may only be able to ejaculate with great effort and after prolonged intercourse (for example 30 to 45 minutes). The most common causes are psychological. Common psychological causes include:


A strict religious background causing the person to view sex as sinful

Lack of attraction for a partner

Conditioning caused by unique or atypical masturbation patterns

Traumatic events (for example learning that one's partner is having an affair)

Organic causes are also possible; a variety of drugs may sometimes impair ejaculation.

Neurological diseases may also cause delayed or an inability to ejaculate such as strokes and nerve damage to the spinal cord or back.


In cases where there is a problematic relationship or an inhibition of sexual desire between the couple, therapy to enhance the relationship and emotional intimacy may be required as a preliminary step.

This can it be prevented

Healthy attitudes toward sexuality and one's own genitals helps prevent delayed ejaculation. It is also vitally important to realise that one cannot always control a sexual response, just as you cannot force yourself to go to sleep or to perspire. The harder one tries to have a certain sexual response, the more it becomes inhibited.

To minimise the pressure, a man should absorb himself in the pleasure of the moment, without worrying about whether or when he will ejaculate. The partner should create a relaxed atmosphere, free of pressure. Finally, any fears or anxieties, such as fear of pregnancy or disease, should be openly discussed.




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