After it does it's business, it dies. Please help?!

After it does it's business, it dies. Please help?

Ok. When my fiance and I have sex, I always *** before she does. After I do, the little soldier dies as soon as any motion stops. I hate it. I can't stay hard long enough for my woman to get hers. Sometimes I can get her to get hers first, but I want to last longer than that. So does she. Please help. For the sake of my relationship...

There is so much that can be said about this topic it is almost as if it is more important than anything else in a man's life. The reasons for coming quickly in men vary tremendously. It may be a physical problem, see a doctor. If it has only started happening now it may be simply because you really love your fiancee and want to get her pregnant on a subconscious level, if that is the case simply pulling out at the point of your orgasm and coming elsewhere should speed your recovery time. Sex is only over when you don't want to do it anymore! In my experience this problem is a catch 22, stress about it and it makes it more severe, the shorter u last the more likely you will not last longer. You can read a lot about this problem but it may help more to see it as less of a problem and find what is really important, and then things may improve in the bed room automatically, anyway don't stop loving your girl or yourself and have more sex it gets better with practise.