Only GUYS answer this...Please. Its serious.......?????!


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Only GUYS answer this...Please. Its serious.......?????

Hi Iam 19, I had sex around two years back. Then I realized my mistake for doing sumthing what my values dont stand for. From then I gave up gals and I tried to be the best boy within. But now the problem is that I find myself doing HANDWORK more and loosing my health. Everytime I stop myself, I can't for a long time. I
I think it is due to I had sex previously and now I am trying to control my libido.
What should I do, other then consulting doctor.....?

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1 month ago
I know masturbating is not at a disease of some kind. I want solution in terms that how should I control my feelings and I've tried yoga and all that stuff, they are notathat much effective in my case. THAT'S THE PROBLEM.........?


Answers:

Dear A2

It seems to me that there is more than one issue here which needs to be resolved:

1. I applaud your moral values and the desire to live by a set of values. It shows great strength of character. However I have a feeling that you have assumed that sexual thoughts are wrong and are fighting a natural urge.

It seems to me that your distress is due to the guilt of sexual desire that you feel. These are natural and correct emotions. They are designed for you to be attracted to females and one day used to reproduce as well as enjoy a physical relationship with your partner. You must try and accept these emotions. Sexual desire is not wrong and you have no need to supress or fight them. As long as they do not lead to an action that hurts another individual they are good and indeed nessessary.

2. Handwork as you put it or mastuburation is completly normal and acceptable way of dealing with your sexual libido. You should not feel worried or guilty about it and it does not harm your health.

I feel you should face your guilt and come to terms with your sexuality accepting it as healthy, natural, acceptable and good as long as it does not harm others.

Hope this helps




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