Im scared about the speed of my relationship?!
Question:
Im scared about the speed of my relationship?
I am with someone who i REALLY REALLY like who I think about all the time and makes me feel like a million dollars. Thing is I came out of a 6 year relationship in January and am scared that this is all moving too fast. I met him in April and he told me he loved me the night before last.
I want to tell him that I want to keep things as they are but also just fun and light as well but I dont want to alienate him as if he backs off I will be gutted.
Does anyone have any ideas what to say? x
Answers:
In your situation I suggest you say...
" I want to keep things as they are but also just fun and light as well but I dont want to alienate you .... if you back off I will be gutted"
It will take him by surprise ... but at least he will understand without all that female double speech we tend to cop.. Women are from Mars, I reckon.