Guys only pls!!! Your thoughts on females fantasies?!

Guys only pls!!! Your thoughts on females fantasies?

Is it better if a female is kinky, nasty slutty if you will in the bedroom or do you mostly prefer her to let you bring up the nasty, dirty stuff? Ex: Should she bring up her fantasies and wishes like play rape desries, playing with toys, naughty thoughts or should she wait until you either ask her or beg her to? Some guys say they want their women virtuous and pure and they like to be the dirty ones, but nowadays I am confused. What is your take on hearing women's fantasies, dirty thoughts and desires and how do you like to hear them (in what way do you want them to be revealed)?

First off, depending on the gentleman, you don't want to freak him out, and vise-visa(Guys, u don't want to freak your lady out either). Find out thru general discussion how he / she observes that particular topic. Everyone is different. Someone may take offense to that while others may become interested, even overly excited about the idea.

My suggestion is to find out how your partner views this toic before initiatling your ideas or fantasies. Example: Go to an adult store (provided your old enough to get in) and browse the videos..that should get the conversation going and divert it to what you are inquiring about here.