Partner and miscarriage where can I find help?!
Question:
Partner and miscarriage where can I find help?
I was wondering where I can find help for a man dealing with a miscarriage. I was suprised at his reaction as none of us knew I was pregnant until I lost it after getting abdominal pains only a couple of weeks. But his beliefs are different to mine, he's really upset and I don't know how to help because I'm terrified I won't have children and I'm on edge myself. Are there any helplines specifically for men?
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1 month ago
He is supporting me but is upset as well. I have had miscarriages before and I'm getting on ok and have councellers available to me but he hasn't been through it nor has any help. He's not a bad man
Answers:
Im very sorry for your loss. See if you can get him in to mental health somewhere and yougo too. This is very hard to deal with. If not ,talk talk talk talk talk. I mean it, it helps!!!
I know this sound weird but you can get a tree to plant outside and name your baby and tie the name on the tree. That helps with loss.
Don't worry you will have children. I had 4 miscarriages and had to take meds with both my kids to get them to full term.
I hope all this helps, and again so sorry for your loss.
-mel