A question for guys..?!

A question for guys..?

Ok, so it's been almost a month since I had sex with this guy and I haven't really talked to him since. I've talked to him via MySpace and text messaging, but not in person. In fact I haven't even seen him since he dropped me off the morning after we did it. I used to be good friends with him, then didn't see him for a few years, then we started talking again over MySpace, and the first night we actually hung out I ended up getting locked out of where I was staying and had to stay at his house..and it just happened. And truthfully, I'm not just saying this to make myself not sound like a skank, but I have never just had sex with someone so quick after hanging out once and not actually seeing eachother for so long.. Anyway, my question is, as being guys, what does this mean for me? Did I just get used? Does he not like me? Some of my friends say he's scared or whatever..could that be true? Does he think I'm a skank? What are you opinions?

1 month ago
And he did want to hang out last weekend, but I didn't. I don't want him to just think he can only hang out with me if he wants sex...I'm kind of nervous to hang out agian...

Hi, I wish there was an easy answer to this question. If it were me in this situation I would just come out and ask him what's up. Unfortunitely there are guys out there who will do pretty much anything to get into a girls pants. But, there are also guys that really are nice. My bet is that he is feeling as wierd about it as you are and just wants to get things back to normal. I would just go hang out with him and make sure he knows your feelings about not wanting to just have sex just cuz you hung out for a while. He will probably laugh and feel relieved too. Good luck. Let us know what you decide to do.

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