I am 16 years old, but unfortunately am cursed with a small penis. at 5.5 inches!

I am 16 years old, but unfortunately am cursed with a small penis. at 5.5 inches, is there still hope for me?

Cursed? Boy you have some issues! I've posted this before and the only reason I keep posting is because it strongly confronts the way that guys like you think about their penises.

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I apologize for this long answer. I just about wrote a book! But it’s a questions that required a bit more than a “it’s not the size of the ocean…bull. I’ve posted this answer before, but I keep sharing it with others so that others can learn from my experience. If it helps you…great! If not, discard it & let it be.

Your problem is that you’re worrying too much about your size. You’re basing your whole manhood on how many inches you have instead of what you’re worth as a man. Or what, are you going to tell me that all you have to offer a woman is your penis & there’s nothing else good about you? If your penis is all you are worth, actually let me correct that, all that YOU think you are worth, then you MUST seek psychological help.

Let’s imagine that you have a smaller than average size…SO WHAT? Are you going to sit there & cry, b!itch about it, & feel sorry for yourself? Or even throw your money away buying pills?

Why not use all that energy and use it in educating yourself on how to REALLY please women. I say REALLY because there’re a lot of guys out there that think that penis size is everything. Hell with penis size, most men think that their penis (regardless of size) is all women need in bed.

Most men with larger than average penises think that they are going to send women into pleasure ecstasy with their big penises alone. They base their whole sexual existence on their size. The funny thing is that all surveys on that matter, show that VERY FEW women ever achieve orgasms from penetration alone, and get this.. REGARLESS OF THE SIZE OF THE PENIS!!!

A small study ( of 72 couples) showed that small sized but well skilled men are more sexually confident & on the long run, their partners are more sexually satisfied than women with partners with large members. Isn’t that interesting?

Think about it for a moment, think about the way men feel and think about their penises. About their penises being the center of attention during sex. Isn’t that stupid? No wonder most guys don’t have a real understanding on how to please a woman, & why we let other people brain wash us into thinking that our penises are everything.

You may think that I don’t understand you, but I really do. I used to have a 7” penis, but after a surgery to remove some fibrous tissue that had built due to injury, I end up with a 4 ½” penis. At first I wasn’t too happy about, like most guy would too. But after a few months after my surgery, I’ve come to realized that it was a blessing in disguise. In fact, I never really wanted to have the size that I now have, but if I was given the choice of going back to my old size, I probably would. But ONLY as long as I was able to keep the knowledge that I’ve gained. If I were to lose that knowledge in the process of going back to my original size, I wouldn’t want to go back. NO WAY!

My new size has made me rethink about the way that I used to try to please women. I used to think that I was a great lover. Now I know that I never was. At least not to the extend that I could had been. I was pretty selfish like most guys.

I’ve spent a lot of time after my surgery listening to women talk about sex. Asking them questions about what they really want in bed & so on. After talking to a lot of them, including lesbians & bisexuals (I live close to West Hollywood, which in case you don‘t know, it‘s a gay community), I now have a better understanding of what women really want in bed.

I’m going to use an analogy to illustrate how sex between men and women should be. We have to compare sex to a nice diner. Your penis, regardless of size, is NOT the main dish on the table. Kissing, hugging, caressing…in other words, lot’s of affection is the appetizer. A full body massage with soft kisses all over her body is a great appetizer. Then comes the main dish, which is a combination of masturbation & oral sex. Once she’s had enough (once she‘s pleased), then your penis becomes the dessert. Then comes the toppings (whip cream, nuts, etc.) on the desert. The toppings are the kisses, the holding & caressing that comes after the act while laying in bed.

Unfortunately, most guys, specially “big” guys think that a couple of minutes of kissing, masturbation and/or oral sex is the appetizer, & their penis is the main dish and the dissert all rapped into one.

I never really wanted to have the size that I now have, but if I was given the choice going back to my old size, I probably would. But ONLY as long as I was able to keep the knowledge that I’ve gained. If I were to lose that knowledge in the process of going back to my original size, I wouldn’t want to go back. NO WAY!

So stop worrying about the size of your penis and start worrying about learning to really satisfy women. If a lesbian without a penis can, why not you? Hummm, that’s exactly it…to please women, you must learn to think like one & start enjoying sex like they do. Learn to enjoy the emotional part of love making more than the physical part. I’m not saying to not enjoy the physical part of it, but as long as you keep concentrating on the physical rather than the emotional part of the equation, you will always think as a “man.“ In other words, you’ll always use your “little head” instead of the head above your shoulders & your heart. Simply put, learn to please your girl the way another women would. I could write a chapter just about this particular issue base on what I’ve learned from women, but that’s another story. Good luck!