Questions on masturbation.?!


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Questions on masturbation.?

Is it true that if you masturbate to the sight of porn alot you will lose the urge to have normal sex with an actual woman in a short amount of time? Or will you become more in tune with what you like and how you like it and it will follow you into the bedroom? Then you and your partner can have better sex?


Answers:

As long as your partner is honestly comfortable with your actions, I think it is not unhealthy for your relationship. There is a line of thought that the porn industry desensitizes you to the appearance of "real woman:" and can certainly cause some insecurity issues with your girlfriend or wife. (Speaking from experience... Come on, I don't even have boobs close to that!) So again, it comes down to honest communication and reaffirmation that you find your partner exciting and attractive.

I have heard men argue that they watch porn to improve the relationship with their wives, partners. This can be true because you can gain some creative ideas. HOWEVER, the only way it will legitimately improve your relationship is a) if you don't need to hide what your doing and b) if your wife, partner feels comfortable with the idea.

But from my opinion honesty and communication (about porn / masturbation / and life in general) is the best way to improve all aspects of your relationships... including your sex life. I know that sounds cliche... but its true.

To answer your first question though, honesty I don't believe its that easy to lose the sexual urge for real life relationships... I mean, porn is exciting... but not as exciting as the real thing. However, any good thing taken to an extreme is a bad thing. So take that into consideration as well.

Hope this helps.




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