Guys...a little advice plz?!
Question:
Guys...a little advice plz?
my bf is into dirty talk/noises while having sex. Im not....and we do have sex but im just like the quiet type...like i do just heavy breathing/ and little silent moans....he says he doesnt care that we will just work up to that whenever....but the truth is i just feel a little strange saying things and screaming lol. What tips do u guys have?
Answers:
Why men demand women to be more expressive is coz men are more visual and vocal compared to women. More over male psychie is altogether different compared to fems. What matters more to men is what he could do to his partner. Not what he could get from. So your responses to his plays imply that he is doing good. That actully is a positive reinforcement and encouragement to him while making love to you. So reacting to what he does is very important...it will only arouse him more.
But that need not mean that you need to behave like a porn actress in bed. Why dont you guys meet half way? You become a bit more expressive and dirty, while he reduces his extremities. You know i too used to be quiet. And my husband demamded me to be more expressive. I too had a bit starting problem letting the voice outta my mouth. But now i love expressing myself fully n it makes him horny as well.
You will never enjoy sex unless you are ready to welcome changes and try new things. And if you are, you will never stop wondering if there is something else you can do in it.
So....good luck n enjoy!!!