I have a question regarding my husband????Need advice?!

I have a question regarding my husband????Need advice?

My husband and I usually have a very healthy sex life. Usually we have sex every couple of days if not every day. Well.....Last Saturday night he went out (and I do trust my husband) and Sunday I tried to initiate sex and he said he wasnt ready. I didnt think too much of it and now it has been four days and he doesnt seem interested at all. Could it be that he is just tired and really not ready, or could it possibly be deeper than that. Please be real on this subject I really am getting kind of nervous about the situation. Could he be just masturbating and not ready.....I don't know any input would be appreciated.

1 month ago
okay some more info.....my husband as far as I know isnt really into the whole masturbation thing. I know he does occassionally, but how often I don't know. I had our third child three months ago, and he couldnt keep his hands off of me since. And last week we did it twice thursday twice friday nothing saturday, and he went out saturday night got home at 4 a.m supposedly he was with his friends, but I am thinking it could be a female friend I don't know. I have talked to him about this and all he says is that he is tired and isnt ready. What's up with that????I havent changed at all in 5 days so why isnt he interested.

don't jump to conclusions
i am sure you have had weeks where you just didn't want to have sex yourself for four days or more and you weren't having your period or anything too. where you were just tired and stressed out. you sound like you have a healthy marriage and good trust in between each other. Tonight offer to give him a simple back massage. my husband rarely turns me down for sex but he has a few times because he is just tired and stressed so i just tell him to roll over and rub his back for him.

if he keeps acting strange talk to him about it sometimes men are stubborn to talk about important stuff. if he is stubborn just explain to him that you love him and you are his wife and your very concerned that he is stressed out. do NOTcause him to jump on the defense though just be calm about it im sure theres nothing to worry about
married for 3 years now