Not so erect erections?!


Question:

Not so erect erections?

When my boyfriend and I have sex he often gets kind of soft and really out of breath while we are doing it. So then I proceed to get on top and he just gets almost flaccid to the point where we just cant even do it anymore. Then he gets on top and starts to get hard again. Why can't he just stay hard until he cums? Why does he get even softer when I get on top? I feel like sex lately is just a race for him to *** before he gets soft and too exhausted to go on. He is only 23 and in pretty good physical shape, doesnt smoke and rarely drinks. What is going on?

Additional Details

1 month ago
one time i tried to confront him about how he got super tired during sex and he got really self conscious and kind of mad that I would suggest that he has a problem.


Answers:

It sound more a psychological problem than a physical problem. If he was 63, you might expect to have problems in that department, but not at 23. Suggest that it may be wise to talk to a doctor or counselor about it, and see what they recommend. If it is psychological, then all he may need is to talk through some strategies to combat the problem.

PS. First step is admitting there is a problem, which from your update, it seems that he is not willing to do. It means that you will need to so some research yourself (on the internet) and experiment with different techniques, more foreplay, etc.

It sounds like he tends to perform better when he has control, so you may need to let him have more control. Also, try to slow the process down a bit so he can last longer. Try not to put pressure on him, or it may make the problem worse.. Praise and compliment him where you can. Experiment a bit and take note of strategies that work.
.Good luck




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