He always lets go way early...?!

He always lets go way early...?

So normally once my husband enters me 5 seconds later he lets go and its all over. Yah, frustrating as it is I still love him. But now I wonder, would being dry and the rough'ish friction cause him to let go so fast? I remember a time or two when I was more wet that he would last a bit longer. Still not long enough but...if we would start using pjelly on him, would that help him to last longer? Thanks so much for your answers to a foreward question.

He's probably just suffering from a condition called premature ejaculation. Lots of men have this problem, so don't think you're alone in dealing with this! I don't think it has anything to do with your moisture level, however. He just may be hyper-sensitive. There are lots of exercises he could do alone, or that you could do together, that could help this. Look up premature ejaculation on any medical website, and you will find a host of information on how do deal with this, everything from creams that decrease sensitivity to stopping what you are doing and squeezing the end of his penis until the orgasmic sensation fades away, and then beginning again. I'm guessing that you're probably unsatisfied...until you resolve this problem together, see if he is receptive to the idea of giving you oral sex until you have your orgasm, or whatever other way you prefer. There is plenty of hope for this, though, especially if you two are honest and candid with each other, and don't shy away from the problem. Many a relationship has ended due to sexual issues, because one or the other of the partners have withheld information from the other. Honesty is the best gift that a couple can give each other. Work through this together, and you will have many years of fantastic sex to come! No pun intended.