Help please...bf on steroids?!
Question:
Help please...bf on steroids?
my boyfriend and i live together and when I was cleaning today I found steroids. What do I do? This is the second time I have found them. Last time he swore he would never do it again.
Answers:
Maybe you should instead of just yelling at him and flipping out sit down with him and discuss with him why hes doing it and if he really knows all the pros and cons. A REAL RELAITIONSHIP has to revolve around communication not just "do as I say or else". If hes done his research on it enough and cares about himself enough he wouldn't give himself anything that would hurt him long term or eventually kill him. Everyone is so opposed to Steroids these days because its just something that is frowned upon in society These negative viewpoints come from the 70's and 80's when no one knew anything about them and people were using too much or using them incorrectly and getting hurt. Theres much more information now for someone to make a knowledged decision.. Regardless of his reason, yelling at him and not having an open conversation about it without being upset first will fix NOTHING... after all the reason he has to hide it from you now is because you probably flipped out the first time without giving him a chance to explain himself... and at least you didnt find crack