Ejaculation frequency?!
Question:
Ejaculation frequency?
My boyfriend and I have sex everyday, sometimes twice a day. He does not always ejaculate and sometimes goes days without ejaculating. I know he's good at holding it in when we want him to, but sometimes he wants to but he can't and after a lot of trying (which of course feels good) we give up. Problem is while he doesn't worry about it and just says he probably doesn't have much "reserve", it kind of bothers me and makes me feel like he's not enjoying the sex or I just don't do it for him. I feel like it's my fault and it makes me sad that I can't make him "finish". I'm 25 and just lost my virginity to him a year ago so I'm not all that experienced (he's 38) and I just feel insecure about his lack of ejaculation even though he says he loves making love to me and it feels really good. Could it be that I'm doing something wrong or is it that some men don't ejaculate as often, or could it be his age? I guess I just don't understand why if it feels so good and he's so into it.
Answers:
Believe what he says. And with age a man ejaculates differently(takes longer) and less frequently. The best thing you can do for your boyfriend is get to know your own body and what really turns you on. Your orgasm is something that will get him going every single time.
The fact that you are having sex that often tells me he is pretty happy with you.