My Husband REFUSES to get STD tested!....?!
Question: He said he has been tested a few times. He used to be a MAN WHORE so has had TONS of A**.
He says if he has something- he doesn't want to know. So I told him that I want to know and if he can just request not to get the results... he said no because he is afraid of it ruining our sex life. He says he has been with ALOT of woman and hasn't been tested so if he has herpies- he knows I wouldn't go down or anything.
I did marry him, so whatever he has... I can deal with. As long as its not deadly! I already know that he has had std's in the past but they were all cure-able.
How can I convince him??? I keep trying and trying. I want to know what I "could get" and If I am willing to take that risk or not. Yea, I know... I should have handled this PRIOR to marrying him but nobody thinks their lover has something!
Answers: He said he has been tested a few times. He used to be a MAN WHORE so has had TONS of A**.
He says if he has something- he doesn't want to know. So I told him that I want to know and if he can just request not to get the results... he said no because he is afraid of it ruining our sex life. He says he has been with ALOT of woman and hasn't been tested so if he has herpies- he knows I wouldn't go down or anything.
I did marry him, so whatever he has... I can deal with. As long as its not deadly! I already know that he has had std's in the past but they were all cure-able.
How can I convince him??? I keep trying and trying. I want to know what I "could get" and If I am willing to take that risk or not. Yea, I know... I should have handled this PRIOR to marrying him but nobody thinks their lover has something!
id be very afraid if i were you. sounds like he knows something and is hiding it. there is too much crap out there to catch. you dont want to risk getting something DEADLY for ANY man at all. EVER!! Id demand he get tested. dont ask him DEMAND it. hold out on it until he does. im serious.
maby he is hiding something
You both need to be tested...and should go together...
you need to try to convince him that this is the best thing for your sexual relationship if you do find out things shouldn't change, but if he doesn't no sex until he does
Girl, you asked like 15 questions about your husband and his herpes, Look, he is nasty for giving oral to some nasty ho, so if you want it, stay with him, or demand he get tested because he probably has more than just oral herpes. take care of yourself and then worry about his nasty ***.
Sounds like He has something and he Knows and Dosent want you to know you need to demand he gets tested and if he wont then thats it you need to leave him.he would rather hid things from you then let you know? Basicly If he wont get tested you deff need to go and if you have stuff you know you got it from him.I saw your question about passing herpes on to your future child and yes when you are giving birth if you have an outbreak alot of times they will do a C section.