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Question: Ok im 14 a very bad rare illness and my doctors informed me that my time is cut short and im not scared of dying, just missing out on what would be in my future and not finding my place.
but thats not the problem.
my problem is my best friend
and my boyfriend
both of them are in denial about me dying soon and i just need and want them to be supportive but everyime we talk its like im not Amy I'm just someone they feel really sorry for and i love both of them but how do i change their minds that im still Amy.
God Bless.
-Amy-
Answers: Ok im 14 a very bad rare illness and my doctors informed me that my time is cut short and im not scared of dying, just missing out on what would be in my future and not finding my place.
but thats not the problem.
my problem is my best friend
and my boyfriend
both of them are in denial about me dying soon and i just need and want them to be supportive but everyime we talk its like im not Amy I'm just someone they feel really sorry for and i love both of them but how do i change their minds that im still Amy.
God Bless.
-Amy-
Everyone deals with death differently. It sounds as though you are adjusting well or maybe you are in denial. You can't force someone to accept death. You can support them and reassure them. It sounds as though you have faith in God. Your friends will adjust as time passes. Continue to be you and make the most of evey day. Keep faith in God and understand he holds our future. He has the plans for us.
look just sit down with them and talk to them. Tell them things to take their minds off it. Keep them busy ALL THE TIME.
hope tis helps.