I am asking if I have syntoms of hiv or any std?!
Question: I have pimples on my thiys and some times on my back. My girl friend and I have had un proteckted sex for 2 months now she gets pimples on her back and she said she never got them till she had sex with me. she said she was tested 12 years ago and if she has it its from me. but dose hiv show up 3 months prior? and also I got a rash of pimples after we had sex the first tim all over my crouch and front side for a week or so but are thous just sex pimples I am going to get tested but still wounder if I got something from her or did I give her? Please help me understand!
Answers: I have pimples on my thiys and some times on my back. My girl friend and I have had un proteckted sex for 2 months now she gets pimples on her back and she said she never got them till she had sex with me. she said she was tested 12 years ago and if she has it its from me. but dose hiv show up 3 months prior? and also I got a rash of pimples after we had sex the first tim all over my crouch and front side for a week or so but are thous just sex pimples I am going to get tested but still wounder if I got something from her or did I give her? Please help me understand!
No one online, or in person can tell you if you have HIV or an STD. The only 100% accurate way to know is with a blood test performed by a certified Doctor. Some drug stores sell HIV tests you can perform at home, but I don't reccomend that.
12 years ago is WAY to long ago to use as a safety net for unprotected sex. Unless she is claiming she never had ANY sexual contact, exposure to blood, spit, etc in those 12 years.
So that is NOT a dependable defense on her part, and certainly not a 'proof she is clean' report on your part.
You should ALWAYS go get tested for HIV and STDs before having sex with a new partner. Unless of course your life or body means squat to you.
On that note, still get tested (both of you) for anything and everything - which you should do anyway.
Pimples can be contagious in the sense of if they are pimples from a certain bacteria one of you might be carrying. Pimples themselves are created from a clogged pore usually filled with pus and bacteria.
Bacteria or viruses don't always have to be sexually disease related. They could simply be sweat pimples on your backs (from all the extra exercising during love making), dirty sheets, someone not having washed up good before sex which can spread dirt, grime, sweat, oils, and the such during lovemaking. In easy to grasp terms, that just means both of you should shower before, and after love making sessions.
HIV tests now can pick up HIV usually within days or weeks of you contracting it. Hepititis however can lay dormant for up to 20 years, so can some other STDs. I don't know though if their are tests which can pick them up even while they are dormant, I would assume so. But ask the doctor anyway to make sure.
Not to sound rude, but your spelling errors show either a lower educational background, that you don't speak english well, or that you are a very young person. If you are young, you really need to discuss sex with a parent, doctor, or someone older whom you trust. If you are not very educated, than go to the library and check out some books on sex education, STDS, and HIV. You should really educate yourself (to anyone reading not just you) about sex before ever actually having sex.
Sex is about being safe and smart (at least for adults who have common sense).
P.S. You should really use condoms, for her safety and your own.. plus it doesn't seem like you would be prepared to have a child just yet.
Go to a doctor asap and no sex because you don't want to infect other people just in case.
You definitely have some sort of STD! you should go to the dr.