Serious problem... please no jokes?!
Question: When I go to the bathroom and try to poop it hurts.and blood comes out, when i finish if i do it hurts to sit on anything or stand. im afraid to go becuse it hurts so bad. its not just a little pain it hurts so much i could cry .im 13 and i dont have sex. and im scared to tell my mom kinda embarrassing.its been going on for about 4 days
Answers: When I go to the bathroom and try to poop it hurts.and blood comes out, when i finish if i do it hurts to sit on anything or stand. im afraid to go becuse it hurts so bad. its not just a little pain it hurts so much i could cry .im 13 and i dont have sex. and im scared to tell my mom kinda embarrassing.its been going on for about 4 days
I'll tell you what kiddo, I'm a mom, and you've told me. As a mom, I would want to get you to the doctor's to see what's going on, and I'd certainly want you out of pain! I'm sure your mom will feel the same way. You could just need to change your diet, but this is why it's important to see the doctor. There are some medical reasons why this could be happening like IBS (irritated bowel syndrome), or you may be impacted (when it builds up and it's too big for your little body to pass) or a few other things. They can all be helped, you can even get relief immediately from the doctor prescribing the right meds for the right case!
Don't be worried honey, us mom's don't automatically jump to conclusions about our little girls having sex, we just want to make all of your illnesses, bumps, bruises, you know - all of the bad things we mom's just want to make it all better. You shouldn't be hurting like that, and I'm sure your mom will feel the same way.
In the meantime, when that happens to us mom's (yes, even us mom's suffer from those problems) we buy this bright yellow thing we call a donut to sit on. It's kind of like a tube you would use in the pool, the cushion is where you would sit, and the hole in the middle would be where your bottom kind of hangs out, that way you're not putting any pressure on it when you're done going to the bathroom. You can take a blanket (comfortor) and make a ring out of it, leaving a hole in the middle just like a donut. It may make you feel better than you have been after going, unfortunately it doesn't help while you go. That part is where the doc will help out.
Just so you don't feel too embarassed, the doctor's see things like this on the average about 5 times a day (regular doctors). Specialists see it all day long! You need not get embarassed, just keep reminding yourself that with all the doctor gets to see in one day - he or she is going to want to remember your smile!
i think you should talk to your mom about it and go see a doctor that isnt normal.blood in your stool can be a sign of a serious problem.it may be embarrassing but remember everybody poops!!
this isn't good. don't panic, but honeslty talk to your mom about it ok hun.
she will help you . thats what they are there for. If you dont do something bout it, it can get worse. it may be awakward to talk to your mom about it, but she will be really happy that you told her & proud of you for telling her soon enoough. if you wait to long , & she finds out, she may say " why havent you told me ?:" so please jsut tell her & tellthe doctor. they will help.
good luck :)
That would be very scary for me too. You said you are embarrased to tell your mom. Do you trust her? If you do, then go ahead and tell her what is happening and that you would like to go see your doctor. Everyone is embarrased when it comes to "poop" questions. The fact is- we all do it. Can you confide in an adult you trust. You deserve an answer - by a professional to your situation. Good luck and I feel that everything is going to be ok.
try drinking some prune juice to start...it will loosen your bowel movement. you could be constipated. then if you do not see any changes you need to talk to your mom and go to the doctors. hope you feel better.
talk with ur mom. that way u can see a doc to make sure it isn't serious. might be just a simple fix of getting rid of a hemroid
Sounds like you are constipated and when you try to poop it tears your anus a little bit. This isn't that serious. Maybe you should try a stool softener. But tell your mom, but don't freak about because this isn't that uncommon and doesn't sound that bad. There are a lot of over the counter medications you could use to help ease your pain.
It's ok. It happened to my sister and she told our mom so my mom brought her to the docter and the docter said that it's because for two reasons.
1. because she hasn't pooped for days and it got clogged all together into one big poop.
2. because she wasn't eating the right type of food
I know it's not funny so tell you parents and they'll tell you what to do.
Good Luck!! ',<D