Is this normal [sex]?!
Question: is it normal to have a boyfriend who only wants to have oral sex and not actual intercourse??
Answers: is it normal to have a boyfriend who only wants to have oral sex and not actual intercourse??
I'd not worry too much about what's normal. Unless you're doing something unsafe, physically or emotionally, I think pretty much anything is okay, sexually.
But is this what you want? If not, then you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you want.
Lots of men - heck, lots of women, too - would really enjoy just recieving oral sex from their partner. It's all pleasure, no work. And some partners, where one person loves to give oral sex and the other loves to receive it, have a lot of oral sex. Nothin' wrong with that as long as both partners are happy.
But if both of you aren't getting what you want - if you want him to stop giving you oral and start having intercourse, or if you are tired of giving unreciprocated oral - then you need to have a conversation about your sexual needs.
Good luck.
There are about as many definitions of "normal" as there are people. Maybe he doesn't consider oral sex to really be sex? Maybe he doesn't want to deal with the possibility of pregnancy? Some people think they are avooidng the possibility of STD's by only engaging in oral sex (not true). Have you discussed your concerns with him?
thats kind of freaky
dont give it up say no **** you i dont argee dont do it thats no fun i oral sex what the hell
that depends.. is he also giving you oral sex, or is he the only one receiving....
that's not normal.
that's just thinking about himself.. and his own pleasure..
if he does not want to, he does not want to. He may not want to take the risk. Try looking at it from his shoes, and from all angles, not just your plesure.