Everyone knows about STDs. Why are you stupid?!?!
Question: I hate when I stumble into a question on Yahoo! Answers about.. "I never had sex. I'm a 40 year old virgin. No one loves me." or something similar and someone answers and say "Just wait for the right person! Think of the STDs you can get from sex! You don't need sex! Play a board game! Oh boy! Isn't that more fun than sex?"
Okay, before I continue my question, I want to say that I don't want any retards answering this question. Last time I made a question similar to this, people took those quotes I just said literally as if someone said the same exact thing like I said all the time.
Anyways, I was wondering if there is anyone in here who has ever said anything similar to "YOU CAN GET STDS! WAIT".. and I want to know why. Why do you think that is helpful? Why do you think a 19 year old, 30 year old, 40 year old who wants to lose his virginity so bad don't know about STDs and why do you think that person should wait any longer? Especially a 40 year old."OMG I LOST MY VIRGINITY AT 81"
Answers: I hate when I stumble into a question on Yahoo! Answers about.. "I never had sex. I'm a 40 year old virgin. No one loves me." or something similar and someone answers and say "Just wait for the right person! Think of the STDs you can get from sex! You don't need sex! Play a board game! Oh boy! Isn't that more fun than sex?"
Okay, before I continue my question, I want to say that I don't want any retards answering this question. Last time I made a question similar to this, people took those quotes I just said literally as if someone said the same exact thing like I said all the time.
Anyways, I was wondering if there is anyone in here who has ever said anything similar to "YOU CAN GET STDS! WAIT".. and I want to know why. Why do you think that is helpful? Why do you think a 19 year old, 30 year old, 40 year old who wants to lose his virginity so bad don't know about STDs and why do you think that person should wait any longer? Especially a 40 year old."OMG I LOST MY VIRGINITY AT 81"
it's because there really are that many clueless people when it comes to STD's and the complications of sex in realationships. Alot of people in the 30's and 40's lived through a period of time when casual sex was a very scary time because of the new discovery of AID's and the resurgence of antibacterial resistant STDs. The younger generation can't imagine times when Dentists and Doctors didn't even think about using gloves, when diseases didn't have drugs to combat them, ect. ect. We were given a wake up call less than 20 years ago, but we're starting to take medical advances for granted and get sloppy again. Good for those that tell people to learn more...
I've never answered a question with that answer but I can see why people would.
With sex comes a lot of risks... that may be why "The Bible" encourage us to sustain ourselves until marriage so that you don't have to go through having: children out of wed-lock, wondering if you've contracted something, loosing a piece of yourself to someone and that person not caring for you as you do them, etc.
If I could start my life over... I would have definitely remained a virgin.
Sex is over-rated and I feel that it's something that I could have waited for.
Hopefully this answers your question
I don't know what your question really is, either way, I've never answered a question with an answer like that, but there are still uneducated people out there who don't know you can still get certain STD's even with protection. I tell people if they are going to do it, be safe and if their question is really uneducated, I tell them they shouldn't be thinking about sex if they don't even know certain answers.
I wish I could agree with you. I found that a lot of people here are misinformed about STDs and HIV.
I do agree that people should know this information, but some of the question come for other countries where, culture, religion, or even poverty keep people from having the most up to date information.
And then there are the questions that you question why they even type them. Being a public forum you put up with a lot of "interesting" inquiries.
Sexual expression is a natural part of being human. It would seem to me that anyone male over 30 who is still a virgin might have some kind of social handicap or attitude thing with women.
I've never said that - but I can see how some might think it's helpful..
I have 4 kids..... 2 of them are teenagers and I've told them everything they need to know....not all parents do that!
So if they come on here & APPEAR STUPID about STDs hopefully someone will inform them.
And BTW - alot of the answers on here are WRONG WRONG WRONG!
This area is for STD questions from people who want advice or to understand a specific STD - but you're right - there's alot of dumb questions on here and alot of dumb answers from people who should just shut up - because they know less than the person asking....
You know what I LOVE??? When they say "Go see a Dr"
Well, DUH!!!