This guy keeps making fun of me because of acne scars on my face. What do I do??!
Question: Ok, so here is the deal. There are guys at school that make fun of my because of acne. But actually, My face is clear, it is just that every once in a while, I get a huge zit and it leaves a scar. And I dont have many! And I seriously dont have any zits. My face isnt blotchy and red ur anything, so I really dont get it. I am kinda popular, and some of my real popular friends have a lot of zits, but they dont get made fun of! I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THEY MAKE JOKES ABOUT ME! I have tried to ignore them, but it has gotten to a point that I have ran home and cried. I dont know what to do!
they make jokes like :
"you need proactive"
"you need a zitless face implant!"
"I bet ur mom even thinks your ugly!"
"the reason you dont have a boyfriend is because you have so many zits, and he doesnt want to kiss a pimple covered face!"
And when I tell them that I have a bf, they laugh and make fun of me in front of like everyone!
Also, they make fun of my eyes, and say they are too small
Answers: Ok, so here is the deal. There are guys at school that make fun of my because of acne. But actually, My face is clear, it is just that every once in a while, I get a huge zit and it leaves a scar. And I dont have many! And I seriously dont have any zits. My face isnt blotchy and red ur anything, so I really dont get it. I am kinda popular, and some of my real popular friends have a lot of zits, but they dont get made fun of! I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THEY MAKE JOKES ABOUT ME! I have tried to ignore them, but it has gotten to a point that I have ran home and cried. I dont know what to do!
they make jokes like :
"you need proactive"
"you need a zitless face implant!"
"I bet ur mom even thinks your ugly!"
"the reason you dont have a boyfriend is because you have so many zits, and he doesnt want to kiss a pimple covered face!"
And when I tell them that I have a bf, they laugh and make fun of me in front of like everyone!
Also, they make fun of my eyes, and say they are too small
Stand up for yourself. No one has the right to treat someone like that. They most likely do it because they know they get a rise out of you. I was always the butt of everyones jokes throughout school. One day I said enough is enough. Never again will I let someone disrespect me. Break him down to the lowest level. He is weak, show him that you are strong.
he's either gay or likes you jejeje. People can be so retarded sometimes don't feel bad ... if he says anything bad just say thanks but i dont remember asking your opinion
and ignore him... if you dont pay attention all the fun in his gamehas disappeared
reminds me of the little phrase, "Boys are stupid. Throw rocks at them."
They keep doing it probably because they know they can get to you. Don't react. Just ignore them and they'll most likely stop.
Or you could go the other way and tease them back. I'm sure there is something you could tease them about.
Talk to your teacher and the principal. It is illegal to bully anyone. They have to put a stop to it. Your parents could also call their parents and threaten to sue.
I dont condone violence in any way--BUT maybe you should kick him in the balls one good time and see if he shuts up. No, that will get you kicked out of school and possibly charged with assault. Okay, I guess I have to give the adult answer-=-ignore him. He probably just like you anyway and does not know how to approach you. That is how boys are. I can remember people doing crap like that in high school. It sucks. I hate it for you. Dont let this make you cry anymore. I bet you are pretty and he is just intimidated by your beauty. All I can tell you is this--all those jerk offs who made fun of me and my friends in high school--here is what happened. They saw us in college and went nuts over us. Well, we did not give them the time of day. Everything that jerk does will come back to him. keep that in mind.
ive been there and done it its so hard to walk away without saying anything but by reacting to them you are giving them more ammo to more things to you i learned the hard way.
yes it hurt all the comments and they do stick in ya mind for a while but DONT let them see it bothers you just shrug ya shoulders and walk away and if they arent having a go at your friends and there skin is worse then 9/10 they prob have feelings for you and its the only way they can talk to you without their mates knowing. peolpe like that are not worth your energy keep ya chin up it does get easier xx
I know you are young and this is propabaly really upsetting you at the moment but you do need to ignore them. I used to have spots at school and I got teased for it sometimes too. I am 31 now and I still have them. I have a husband too, so somebody obviously thought I was attractive even though I have spots. Its not easy for you at the moment but as you get older you will realise that this really isnt a massive problem and you will realise that these people just arent worth worrying about. What are these people covering up? Do they have hemorroids, do they have a hairy bum? Just try to imagine them with something like that or try to imagine them on the toilet or something and have a litlle laugh to yourself.
Thats SO pathetic.
It's making me mad just thinking about that now.
Get your friends to stand up for you next time it happens, those boys are just immature retards who have nothing better to do.
I know this is WAY easier said then done, but by them getting a reaction you're giving them a reason to keep on going.
Try you're best to avoid them/ignore them
Try insulting them aswel, just say, well i'd prefer to get the odd spot or so rather then be permently ugly...like you.
There's loads of boys in my school like this but i've eventually learnt to just walk past them.
It really annoys them =P.
I bet you're stunning really aswel!
Good Luck! xxx
When people make fun of you, they choose a target they know you're self-conscious about. They only do it to make themselves feel better; it gives them a sense of power, knowing your self-esteem is based so much on what they say. Bullies pick targets based on how the target reacts to what the bully says, not based on actual flaws in the target.
So the best advice I could give to you is...screw them! Who cares if they think you've got a bunch of zits? I bet every one of them has herpes. Or was born with a tail, or something, and they're just trying to make themselves feel better. DON'T EVER LET OTHER PEOPLE GET CONTROL OF HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF. You kick a s s. If they can't see that, they can all go swallow a knife.
If you get an attitude on life like this, then making fun of you won't be fun for them anymore, since it doesn't get to you.
Good luck
Your adversary is probably one of the weakest in the world. The fact that you haven't already verbally tore him/them apart is sad. He/them are not confident in themselves so they make fun of others to draw the attention to someone else's flaws and away from their own (of which they are very insecure about, even more than you). Pick one of their flaws and go to town if you wanna stoop to that level. Why do you even need these people's acceptance? They're nothing.
tell them to **** off.....who are they to judge you...thell them to go look at them selves.