16 year old victim of herpes?!


Question: i am 16 just been dogionsed with herpes. i am a single mother with a 18 month old son been with my boyfriend for nealy 5 months he gets on great with my son so far so good.i caught the herpes from him he says he didnt no he had it.what should i do stay with him ? or move on? im gettin through it ok but his haveing a hard time dealing with it. im confussed about what to do.


Answers: i am 16 just been dogionsed with herpes. i am a single mother with a 18 month old son been with my boyfriend for nealy 5 months he gets on great with my son so far so good.i caught the herpes from him he says he didnt no he had it.what should i do stay with him ? or move on? im gettin through it ok but his haveing a hard time dealing with it. im confussed about what to do.

WOW - so young....and I'm not talking about the herpes! The kid & boyfriend!!
I also got it when I was 17yo from my HUSBAND...who I married when I was 16yo....hhhmmm so who am I to lecture?

Anyhow - alot of men don't notice their symptoms...they don't spend the time we do downstairs grooming and taking care of it...so a little sore or itch goes un-noticed until they're told they have given you herpes - so i choose to believe him & if you love him & continue this relationship - you're going to have to believe him also.
There IS LIFE AFTER HERPES...AND LIFE AFTER THAT MAN WHO GAVE IT TO YOU...I've been divorced & remarried (and had many many boyfriends in between).. I was open & honest about having herpes BEFORE sex with each and every one of them - and I hope you are too.
Get to know your symptoms - don't have sex from the 1st itch...until the scabs dry up & fall off (sorry - that sounded gross)
Forgive him for giving it to you....but don't feel like you have to stay with him because you have herpes....

The herpes should have nothing to do with whether you are with this man. If you loved this man and he is a good father why move on. I understand you are young but you have a baby to think of. If you did not want to get an STD in the first place you should have made him have tests or used a condom. Hope this helps XD

How old is he? I was 16 when my 20yr old boyfriend gave me H. He said he didn't know he had it. He didn't have a hard time dealing with it cause he's a jerk, at least your boyfriends cares enough to show remorse. My boyfriend new he had it,I'm sure of it., I think he lied to me. I'm 33 now. He's had 2 baby's mother's since then and gave it 2 both of them and told each of them that he didn't know he had it.

that ***** played u hahaahaha

when i found out i had herpes i was in the same situation as u (minus the kids though and older then u are). my bf had herpes, didn't know it and passed it onto me. its totally up to u. having herpes can be hard to deal with sometimes but its something that u have to accept and move on with or u will be dealing with it forever and that will only cause more outbreaks. both of u have herps now. it may be kind of hard to find someone who will accept u for having herpes which is what i think about all the time. as for leaving him, that it up to u. if u really love him u can stay with him. i am still living with the guy who gave me herpes, i accepted it and forgave him. talk to your boyfriend let him know whats going on and how u are feeling about it. if he starts treating u differently then its time to move on. having an std shouldn't matter if u are two are in love with eachother. if he continues to treat u well then i don't see a reason to leave him. u should also stop thinking of yourself as a victim of herpes.
HSV1+and 2+ both from my bf

wow that is sad if i got herpes i would be mad scared and he should of gotten tested well if hes a real nice guy u shouldnt dump him cause people make mistake the person who gave it to him neaver told him not his fault and thats good that hes their for his son





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