I see a lot of posts at different time about herpes or other stds?!
Question: does it bother people who get it? some of the posts i have read you think they gave birth, no worry no nothing i know if i had herpies it would really tick me off and i might be in jail from killing the one person i have been faithful to.
Answers: does it bother people who get it? some of the posts i have read you think they gave birth, no worry no nothing i know if i had herpies it would really tick me off and i might be in jail from killing the one person i have been faithful to.
You're right.. But some people just dont care ....Go figure
How would you feel if the person who gave it to you got it from a hospital?
once you have something like that you have it. its not like cancer or something. why go crazy and freak out? theres nothing that can be done about it.
A lot of people actually know their partner has herpes, or else catch it from a partner who is completely unaware they are infected.
My boyfriend has got cold sores since he was a kid, on his mouth. He told me he could give me genital herpes if he gave me oral sex when he had one, but we thought it was ok when he didn't have one and we were so careful. 7 years into the relationship, he gave me oral sex and I caught herpes - and he hadn't had ANY symptoms for months. When I researched it I realised the advice his doctor had given him was out of date - the cold sore virus CAN be spread between outbreaks.
But he didn't know, and he ws upset. How could I possibly blame him? He didn't ask for his aunt to kiss him and give him oral herpes when he was 5.
Symptoms wise, it doesn't bother me at all. I get several outbreaks a year, but they are so mild I'd have to look for them with a magnifying glass. After all, it is just like cold sores 'down there', no big deal, and like cold sores, some people get tiny ones and other people get bad ones.
My sister also caught herpes through oral sex from her now husband. She's since had three babies by vaginal delivery and it hasn't been a problem for her.
I struggle with it a bit psychologically. It bothers me that no one cares if you have the virus on you mouth, but they care if you have it on the genitals. The stigma bothers me, I couldn't deal with someone 'accepting' me for having it like it was some big deal. I'm lucky my boyfriend doesn't care, and neither have any of the other people I've told.
i was mad at first when i found out that i have herpes. i had to move on from that and accept that i have herpes. i got it from my bf who i am being monogomous with. i felt like i had ruined my health and what would happen if i had to tell the guy after my bf if we broke up, if the next guy would run for the hills or accept me. he didn't even know that he had herpes. sometimes i have good days and sometimes i have days where i feel dirty for having herpes. nothing would be resolved or forgiven. it wouldn't take the herpes out of my body if i did something that extreme to him.