How do you ask a girlfriend to have a test to check for sexual diseases.?!
Question: Just explain to her that you are concerned about having gettinig an STD and would like to know if it is ok with her if you and her both go together to be checked, If she loves and cares for you then it shouldnt bother her at all
Answers: Just explain to her that you are concerned about having gettinig an STD and would like to know if it is ok with her if you and her both go together to be checked, If she loves and cares for you then it shouldnt bother her at all
Well, if you tested positive for one, and you had unprotected sex with her, then you are required as a morally upright person to tell her that she needs to be tested. If you think she infected you, or if you infected her is irrelevent. Just say that you're concerned about her health and tell her the straight story. If you don't know your own status, you can get tested together for your peace of mind.
If you wish to avoid this in the future, I would suggest you use condoms in all your encounters, no matter how 'clean' you think the person is, unless they have recent paperwork in hand stating they are negative.
An orgasm is a few minutes, HIV/AIDS and Herpes are forever.
First, you need to be having some symptoms of some kind. Usually the one with symptoms goes to the doctor and gets treated and the doctor tells you that your sexual partner also needs treated - that is how you broach the subject. If you are in a casual relationship at this time, there is no way that you should ask someone this question until the relationship is on firm ground. If your relationship is ready to go to the next level (intimacy), then, that is the time to have this conversation.
Why not suggest you both test together. Say you read something that it's good for partners to have regular STD/HIV check ups and that it is recommended that they go together at the same time. That way nobody is accusing the other.
Go together....tell her you're interested in knowing for yourself, and she won't think you're calling her a loose woman. Check your local health clinic, and then ask her to go with you.... Say something like, "I think that its great that we're becoming intimate, etc, but I also think we should be safe. Let's both go get an STD test tomorrow," etc.
Having you go with her with keep her accountable about getting it done, and help her be more comfortable with finding out about STD's. If she does seem embarrased to talk to the doctors in front of you, let her go first, or wait outside for her, etc.
tell her straight up be like ***** im not sticking my dick in you until i know you got nothing floating inside of you
don't assume if you have unprotected sex and feel such symptoms no way both you have to do
Start by yourself and ask her to share you due to real reasons
Take a momment to explain to her that if she has ever in her life had sex w/ someone w/ out a condom that she should get tested. The majority of people who have an STD go a while w/out even knowing it. I was in a relationship & we both got tested before hand but then like out of no where I found out I had herpes.[nasty I know] It sucks cause he couldnt get tested for that particular STD & he had a suspecion that he might of had it but didnt tell me. He did not show symptoms till months later. But then it was 2 late. BEWARE: Even if u get tested, the test can come up negative but u still can have a disease. Which is was what happened 2 me. Now I am a sad horny lonely girl. So u better be safe ALWAYS than sorry man.