Confusion.....?!


Question: Confusion!.!.!.!.!.!?
I was in a relationship where I truly did love the guy but did not treat him right therefore he broke up with me!. After the breakup I just made things worse I did not leave it alone and kept doing crazy "psycho" things which were so out of character for me!. I could not understand what was going on!. Then I was diagnosed with histrionic disorder!. http://en!.wikipedia!.org/wiki/Histrionic_!.!.!. Which now makes me understand why I was able to do some of the things I was doing!. By no means is it an excuse!. The problem is I still love this guy very very much but I did things that made him not want to speak to me anymore!. Time has passed and I was thinking to try and contact him again!. I dont think him hearing that I have been diagnosed with this will have him come back but maybe he will understand it better and give me another chance by getting to know the new controlled me!. What do you think!? Could it be possible or do I need to work hard to forget about him!? I have been told the way I amWww@Answer-Health@Com


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I am sure he has forgiven you!.!. you obviously suffered some extreme or anxiety at the time!.!.!. so you know the name of the disorder that caused you to react like that!.!. and you are not responsible !.!. don't feel guilty anymore!.!. move on!.!. but you say time has passed!.!. maybe he is in a relationship!.!. What happened is not your fault!.!. it was your condition!.!. but most likely he moved on too and he is afraid of the same happening again or involved with someone else by now!.!. sometimes you need to let go even if you love someone and it's hard!.!. I understand!.!. all you can do!.!. if he got email and you know his email address send him an explanation and say!. that was what caused it and tell him you hope he is alright!.!. and that you are sorry for what you said to him!.!. if he really did love you!.!. he would respond and maybe get in touch then!.!. maybe he will just say!.!. ok I understand you I have moved on since then!.!. then he understands you and no bad feelings are there but you have to move on then and wait for a nice guy and make a new start for yourself!.!.!.xx

good luck i know it's heatache xx but it's probably best to just do that!.!. and if the does not respond then you better work hard on forgetting about a relationship with him!.!.but you can explain but not in person!.!. that would be a bad idea!.!.!.xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

histrionic huh!. yes the fact that you like him might be related to your disorder!. umm since your in control now i would suggest you not put your self into the same position you were in when you were seen not to have control!. Therefore i would suggest that you find someone else or make sure that you have control enough to get back with him!. if you feel like you "have to" have him or you feel like doing crazy things to do this then you havent the control you need!. If you think being with him is most logical or makes the most sense then you might and i stress might have the control needed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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