Denial.....?!


Question: Denial!.!.!.!.!.!?
I have herpes and my boyfriend, since he hasn't had an outbreak, doesn't want to get tested just in case he has been exposed!. I tell him to go, but he's in denial and states that he thinks he doesn't have it!. How can I make him go!?!? Does this mean he doesn't care if he has it or not!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I think it means, you've done everything you can do!. He knows he's been exposed!. He chooses not to use condoms, you can go from there!. You cannot make him go to the doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

my friend gave her bf herpes and didnt tell him (this was soposed to be just one of those 1 night stands) and she has break outs every few months and he has only had his primary break out!. BUT the guy who gave it to my friend didnt understand that he gave it to my friend!. he didnt speak english very well so im not sure if he was lost in translation or just in denial as well!.!.!. apparently he never had a break out either!. so it is possible hat he has it!. but like another person said!. if he does or doesn't have it!.!.!. it wont chang a damn thing!.!. so give him time and space and hopfully he'll come around to the idea of just checking!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Probably!. Most people dont want to be told they are sick when they feel like nothing is wrong with them!. They only want to hear that when they feel sick!.

I have herpes but was never tested and I only had 2 outbreaks in 15years, both times was when stress levels were at their highest and sleep was almost none existent (i was in the military then)!.

Did you know a cold sore is in the same family and 1in 5 people have the virus!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

If he KNOWS he has it he will have to act responsibly!. Sometimes people would rather live in denial!. He would have absolutely NO idea whether he has herpes or not as many people carry the virus but never have an outbreak!.

Knowledge is power!. Keep yourself informed and educated even if he won't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

We women show se simptoms faster then the males!.!.!.so, I think that if u have it, and u are not on valtrex and using condons!.!.!.probably he has it!.!.!.coz it's very contagious!.!.!.so that!.!.if he dosn't wanna go to be tested in my opinion he dosn't care if he has or not!.!.!.
Another point!.!.!.why it's so important to u to know if he has it or not!.!.!.does it will chance anything between you guys!? I don't think so!.!.!.just le him be!.!.!.if he has or not will not change the order of the facts! So relax and enjoy !

Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think he really doesn't think he has it since he has not had symptoms!. A lot of guys won't go get medical attention for health problems unless they are serious/obvious, especially if it's embarrassing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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