Grandma has cancer how to deal with it?! cant realise it?!


Question: Grandma has cancer how to deal with it!?! cant realise it!?
there's been 2 years since we found out that my grandma has breast cancer!.!.She never went to school and she is a widow for a long time so she doesnt really know about cancer, about symptoms or never went to a gynecologist!.!.She is 75!.!.My other grandma died 10 years ago so she is the only granny i have!.!.she is staying with us!.!.when we've learned she had cancer she had already gone to the 3rd stage!.!.her bones are affected!.!. she had a hole wound on her breast but she didnt know! she had an operation and chimiotherapy about her breast cancer, her hair have fallen!.!.now she is better!. but psychologicly she is devistated, she stays long hours in her room, watching tv!.!.dont walk match and dont eat!.!.I miss my old grandma!. I love her very much and i cant help her!.is my last year in high school and i have to study really hard!.I am afraid that she would die soon!.!. she is too weak!. !. =(Www@Answer-Health@Com


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you grandma has gone through a very traumatic time and she is probably frightened and worn out, the best thing you can do for her is to show her how much you love her and talk to her about anything as long as you are communicating, no one knows how long she has left but it important to spend that time with her and enjoy her company!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

unfortunately grandma won't ever be quite the same as she used to be, but that doesn't mean she can't be better, it sounds like she is depressed try to get her to go to a cancer support group and maybe talk to her dr for help!. If it is severe she may need anti-depressants to help her but sometimes talking to others who are going through the same thing helps a lot!. I know it is hard for you too to see her in pain so maybe ask about some support groups for the families the dr/center your grandmother goes to should have some information!. I know that whenever she does die either now or later it will be hard but celebrate the time you have left, remember the good times, and if it is sooner then be glad she will have been released from her pain, be happy for her but remember it's okay to be sad for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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