My grampa recently passed away i was wondering when will the hurt end?!


Question: My grampa recently passed away i was wondering when will the hurt end!?
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1st off IM REALLY SORRY 4 UR LOSS!.!.!.U AND UR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!!! :)

i know its hard dealing with a loss of a loved one, i've lost many close friends that were young, and family members also!.!.!.!.!.the hurt never really ends but i does get easier in time!.

i'll be praying for you!!!!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND BE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The hurt will end in time, but you will never forget him!. My grandfather passed away when I was 22 years old - that was 26 years ago!. I still miss him terribly, but it doesn't hurt now!. I guess I just learned to live without him in my life but it doesn't mean that I can't think about him!.

Here's something that might help - whenever you miss him, think of him and the things you used to do with him!. Then tell him you miss him and you love him!. After a while, it won't hurt so much, and then it won't hurt at all!. Try to involve yourself in activities to keep your mind occupied because (believe it or not) it does help you to get over the loss!.

I'm sorry that you're hurting, and for your loss!. Keep your chin up and be patient!. This too shall pass!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hi, I'm so very sorry to hear that your grandpa passed away, I just would like to say that the hurt of losing him will go away in time, when we lose someone that is close to our hearts we go thought a grieving period of the loss of someone and our sadness and hurt has to heal from inside our hearts, I cried for a couple of weeks when I loss my grandpa because I was closer to him then my own mother!. He was everything to me!. a loving and care open heart persons to whom love everyone!. It will take as long as you need to take !.!.!.!.just remember all the good times you had with him and all the thing he taught you and did with you!.!. because your grand father will always be alive in your heart and think of him every day and he'll always be with you!.!.!.and it's OK to cry to because that's why god gave us tears to heal from the inside out!. please always think of him every day and he'll still be alive in your heart, I think he would want you to be happy and not sad !.!.!.right!.!.!.!.just give ut time and all the feelings of hurt will go away I promise!. bless you and your grandpa too!.!.!.I hope this will help you heal the hurt!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There is no right or wrong way to get through grief except to go through it!. You should talk as much as you can to others going through this same grief!. Talking as often as you wish !. !. and remembering the good times!. Eventually the good memories will sustain you and the hurt will lessen!. You will never forget your grandfather, but you will learn to live with the memory!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It could take a while, when someone passes away you go through I think the five steps of grief!.

1!. Denial - this happens when you first find out, you try to think that this is all a dream and that this can't be happening!. You're basically just denying the truth!. You don't cry or anything, because you don't believe that it's happening!. Most actually laugh because they think it's a joke!.

2!. Anger - you get real angry, people can cry at this stage but others can just smash things, get really mad!. blame it on them or others!. the can't quite control what's going on!.

3!. Praying!. You're praying for them to come back, you wish all your wishes and pray!. This can be quite sad!.

4!. Depression - you go through the whole crying stage, losing hope in yourself, blaming it all on yourself and thinking it's all your fault, you may go really sad you'd think that you don't belong in this world!.

5!. Acceptance - this is where you have to accept that god has taken him into his arms!. You accept that he is in a better place and he'd probably rather be relaxing in heaven then fighting pain with cancer!.

There's no specific time to say when you'll accept and feel better!. Everyone goes through this in different ways!. But hopefully you will feel better soon!.!.
I hope this helped (:

Oh and sorry about your grandfatherWww@Answer-Health@Com

i CAN UNDERSTAND!
sorry bout the caps!.!.
i really can!.!.
i am sorry she passed away!.!.
it happened to me!.!.
it is upsetting
but you do have to realize that
life moves on
you will always have memories and meet her again sometime in the futuer!
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We never stop thinking about our loved ones after losing them!.!.!.we just learn to live without them in our lives!. The hurt will subside, the feeling of loss may be with you for a very long time!. I lost my father when I was 24 and I still miss him even 22 years later!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

the hurt will never end, you just have to learn to live with itWww@Answer-Health@Com

Slowly!.!.!.!. But you will never foget him you have him in your heart forever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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