My fianc!
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all you can really do is be there for her,, let her know that she can trust you and that, you respect her and you would never hurt her,,, try taking thing slow, dont push her, take things slow and let her know that, she can control how things go, and to make her feel better, tell her that if she starts to feel uncomfortabe in anyway and wants to stop , thats ok with you, if she feels more comfortabe with just touch each other bodys first try that, and they you guys have try for play and just keep slowly moving to a new step as soon as shes ready!. the main thing is not to force her,, let her pick when shes ready, to move to the next step,,,
hope this helps
best of wishes to the both of you
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hope this helps
best of wishes to the both of you
tabbyWww@Answer-Health@Com
Perhaps you should talk to her as to what is it she is actually afraid of (unwanted pregnancy, fear of the relation not lasting for long, etc!.)
Perhaps you should not pressure her too much regarding the actual performance of sex and try to see what is it that she truly want with the relationship and where does she envision it going!.
Here's another thought!. Wait until your wedding night! Perhaps that is what she wants!. Few can help you on this one except a heart to heart talk with your fiance!. Best of luck with this discussion if so choose to accept my advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Perhaps you should not pressure her too much regarding the actual performance of sex and try to see what is it that she truly want with the relationship and where does she envision it going!.
Here's another thought!. Wait until your wedding night! Perhaps that is what she wants!. Few can help you on this one except a heart to heart talk with your fiance!. Best of luck with this discussion if so choose to accept my advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How old is she!? If over 18, you may want to ask her to consult her pastor's wife!. Is she afraid of the act, or possible disease!? Pregnancy!? Abuse!?
It is a big and permanent decision!. Help her rationalize it, without pushing!. Promising to wait until "fiancee" becomes "wife" might help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is a big and permanent decision!. Help her rationalize it, without pushing!. Promising to wait until "fiancee" becomes "wife" might help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, I agree that it would be better to wait until she's your wife, but you might want to have a heart to heart talk with her!. It could be that she had some bad experience when she was younger that caused this such as some form of abuse!. If you push her, it will just make it worse!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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