When would be the best time to tell her about my STD?!


Question: When would be the best time to tell her about my STD!?
I've been in a courtship with this girl for two weeks!. So far, its all over the phone and internet because we live on opposite sides of the country right now!. But she really likes me and she says that as soon as I move back home (in about a month) she wants to start a relationship, including sexual activity!.

So far, we've been really open with each other and gained each other's trust!. But there's one thing I haven't told her yet, and that's that I have an STD!. It's anal warts for those of you who must know!. Yes, I know, its pretty gross!. Its a medical problem for me and its something I've been consulting doctors to get rid of but so far I still have it!. Its not necessarily the end of the world, and the doctors say the risk of spreading it to a partner is low if we take precautions and just avoid any contact with the skin in the area of the anus (its only located there!.!.!.not on the penis)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Honestly, I would tell her over the internet/phone!. You don't wanna get your hopes up to go down there and see her in person, then tell her then she gives you the cold shoulder!. OUCH!.!. that would certainly hurt!.

If you tell her over the internet/phone, then you can probably move the helk on if she decides she doesn't want to talk to you anymore!. Then you won't have to worry so much if you decide to go back home as you two would of both moved on!.

BUT I would suggest you tell her first!. I commend you for being str8 up honest and atleast telling people, bc many people don't!Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah i would tell her ASAP if she really likes you she will take those percautions and still be with you!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

I would definitely bring it up before you meet face to face; warts is something serious, you dont want to take any chances and pass that on to her!. Give her the opportunity to make her own decision whether she wants to deal with that or not!. Don't make the decision for her by waiting until you guys are face to face and anxious to have sex!. It's difficult but fair to your girlfriend!. I'm sorry to hear that you have that!. Please continue to take care of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you've already started talking about sex, then I would tell her before you are in the heat of the moment!. It's the respectful and honest thing to do!.
If I was her, I'd be more concerned over how you got them on your anus over you having them in the first place!.
If she's worth having, she'll appreciate your honesty!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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