My bf is in mexico, and when he comes back i am making him an appointment to get!
Question: My bf is in mexico, and when he comes back i am making him an appointment to get tested for stds!.!?
or should i not do it until he is ready!. i am in the middle of getting tested!. and if i dont have anything i don want anything!. not b/c i dont trust him cause i do, it is just u never know what he is doing in mexico!. i am praying he will do it for me!. but he is afraid that if he has sumthing i will leave him!. i mean there are things out there to help ppl from getting stds from there partner!. should i have him get the test!. or wait until he is ready!. he told me he wants to do it for me!. but i want him to want it for him to not just me!. he is aware he isnt going to get anything from me until he is tested!. what should i do!. i want him to know i will support him through everything!. but i dont want him to just do it for me!. please help me!. what should i do to tell him i am there and should he get the test for me!?!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Don't feel bad because you enjoy not having an STD!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Just tell him that you're not going to get mad at him, you just need to know so that if he does have something, you can get the treatment for it and move on in your relationship!. If he refuses, then he probably has something and doesn't want you to know (which is selfish as hell)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
DON'T RISK YOUR HEALTH! Tell him, no sex until you see a clean bill of sexual health!. It's not an issue of trust but if you are sexually active with ANYONE it's wise to be tested regularly!. Not just HIV either there are other STD's to be tested for that you may want to make sure are negative before you go jumping into the sack again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Thing is he could have contracted an STD in the past and you just may not have caught it!. Reassure him that you are just doing this for both of your safety and you wll not think he did anything wrong if he tests positive!. He should want to do this for you as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
of course he should do it for you, and him!. geeeez!. you shouldnt have to feel bad for asking your boyfriend to do something like this!. he should want to not let anything harm you!. if he doesnt want to do it, he did something bad and its time for you to move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, I think you should say that you really care about him and the relationship and because of that, you want the both of you to be safe and healthy, which is why you're getting tested and that you think he should, too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can't make him have a test done!.Www@Answer-Health@Com