How to tell a spouse about a STD/STI?!

Question: How to tell a spouse about a STD/STI!?
I went for a pap about 7-8 months ago when i found out i was prego!. They told me my pap abnormal and i have high risk hpv(cervical cancer type) and not genital warts type!. I told my husband and he was fine with it more concerned about the cancerous cells!. Well not more than a month ago a saw a growth down there and no suspect that along with the high risk i also have low risk and only because i was pregnant and my hormones are going crazy did i find this out!. Well at the moment my husband is over seas (navy) and i dont know if i should wait until he comes back(in a month) or tell him via email!. I love him and i know he loves me but i was even disgusted when i noticed this!. I know i could have had it for years now and not known nothing or i could have gotten it from him and we wont know if he has it unless there is a growth on him!. But I am just a little afraid of his response considering my own to it!. please give me a little in site if you have had the same problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

genital warts can be there for years without anyone noticing!. he may have given it to you from a previous partner of his but be genuinely unaware that he has it!.

just explain what the doctor told you!. he has no more right to be suspicious of you cheating than you should be of him cheating! if he is your husband he has to know and its better doing it in personWww@Answer-Health@Com

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well one of my friends is going through this right, but she just sat him down and explained to him what the doctor told her and they went on from there!.!.!.!.!.no biggie i think!Www@Answer-Health@Com

HPV causes warts, sounds like that is what you have!. I would wait to tell him, as if he has warts, he will know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Do not tell him via e mail!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like one of u could have been unfaithfulWww@Answer-Health@Com

This is a very hard situation considering your husband is over seas!. Well think about it this way if he would of had a growth I'm sure he would have told you if he noticed it!. The best thing to do is let him know over e-mail that you have something to talk to him about very important when he gets home!. Then when he comes home tell him and I'm sure he will still be loving and understanding!. And to the prick who's saying someone was unfaithful Why do you people even answer these questions if your not going to be serious and try to help!. Get a life Dumb ***!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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