HELP!!!!! could they be wrong? I just a had pap smear.. and they just told me I !


Question: HELP!!!!! could they be wrong!? I just a had pap smear!.!. and they just told me I had gonorrhea!?
But I've been with the same guy for 2 and some years, Ive only been with him!.!. and I know for a fact that his only been with me!.!. becasue mostly we're together all the time and has been!. and his not the type!.!. I trust him!. But the one nurse said that it wasn't possible for me to have it that long and not know and same with him!.!. but he said he never experienced any of the symptoms!.!. so i'm confused if Do have it or had could I of had that long!.!. becasue theres no other way I could of gotton it!. unless before the relationship!? HELPWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Well I hate to break it to you, but this is why you almost can't trust anyone with a knife standing behind you no matter who they are!. People can be in denial, think what they do is a spur of the moment "didnt think about it" situation!. I am sorry you are going thru this as it really breaks a person heart to contract a STD from a love one especially when you are not the one who had given it!. You just need to worry about getting it cured as if you don't, it can lead to the worse!.!. and moving on!. I would suggest you have a talk with your boyfriend, and if he doesn't want to come clean or denies even wanting to talk about it, then he did it and I suggest you break up with him!. I know it is hard to not want to see the truth, but if you know you did not bring it in in your relationship 2 years ago from the start, then he is the blame!. sorry

If you had that for that long, you would of been sick to the stomach and pelvic pain by now!. BTW, why would you underestimate a doctor when they did tests to diagnose you with it!? Did you know Gonnorhea is curable and if he had it, he could of gotten it cured after he has passed it on to you!? That's sad if that really happened!.

You guys should both get tested together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with the last post-er; there is no need to worry yourself about "who, what, when, where, why!.!.!." I would trust your medical provider's diagnosis and take the medication!. Often infections like Gonorrhea or Chlamydia present with no or minimal symptoms, but if they go unchecked and untreated they can wreak havoc on the female reproductive system!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Has he been tested!.!.!. If not he needs to be!. If you are unsure get another test to be absolutly sure!. But its highly unlikely that its wrong!. You may trust your man but it had to have come from somewhere and if it wasn't you than it has to be him right!?
In many std cases men take awhile to have symptoms!.!.!. sometimes they have none at all!. Talk to him seriously and get to some sort of truth!. Because like i said, it had to come from somewhere!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you do not fool around, then your guy does!! People do not get gonorrhea from watching the stars or sitting on a dirty toilet (unless someone is sitting on top of him!!)!. Remember if there is smoke, definitely there was a fire!!
If you do not get treated then you may get scars in your tubes and later on they can create problems for getting pregnant!.
Also, he must be treated too and he must be submitted to a lie detector test!! Trust is at stake here!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you didnt have it before the relationship!.!.!.and you havent been with anyone else!. You might want to start asking a few questions cause he might of gave it to you from another person!. So be warned some men can lie pretty good be careful though u dont want to false accuse it couldve been before you were together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you had STD for 2 and some years you would surely know it!!! OUCH!

You say you've never had sex with anyone else!. You can only be sure for yourself!. You can't be sure of your lover!. I'm sorry!.

Your lover is positive for STD too!? Did you ever notice any discharge from him, any smell!? He must have had some sort of symptoms!.

When was your last STD testing!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

thats a very specific diagnosis, requiring either seeing the germ on a slide,or a positive culture, or a positive DNA test!. Get treated, get your partner treated, and move on!. Not worth exploring the "how" of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

do you have a yearly check up every year!? because i am sure if you do they wouldnt of missed that at your last visit!. so i dont think you could of had it for a long time because gonorrhea can cause uti's!. and if you know you havent been anywhere to get it!. then he probably has!. i had gotten clamydia!. from a guy that i had been with for 4 years and lol we had a kid to gether!. now dont you think they would of found that at my first check up when i was pregnant!? instead of lol 1 yr after i had the kid!. because when you are pregnant they test you for everything including HIV!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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