I had sex with a guy that told me last week he was positive!?!


Question: I had sex with a guy that told me last week he was positive!!?
i had a bi experience, that led to anal sex, about 7 months ago!. i was a top and the scene lasted 1 min!. It was soft sex i controled him and i came!. did minimal oral with individual!. He called me a few days ago and told me he was positive with hiv!. And that he was sorry, he said he swollen glands, lost 25 pounds, was very sick when he went to doctors!. i got tested 5 days ago, and am shitting my pants!! can you guys give me a % of my chances of having hiv!? the doctor told him he had a fresh case of hiv, when he looked at virus!? if such a thing!! i need the most advice, and support please !!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Wow that's deep!. Sorry for you but more than likely you were 100% exposed to the virus, especially with anal AND oral!. In men, anal is the MAIN way that HIV/AIDS is passed due to the small tears on the rectum!.

HIV is not as infectious as some other viral diseases!. If you have sex with someone with HIV and are exposed to the virus, it does not necessarily mean that you will become HIV positive!. Not every incidence of HIV exposure leads to the transmission of HIV!. In fact very few do!.

There are no exact figures for how often HIV transmission occurs when a person is exposed to HIV!. Some research indicates that the likelihood of HIV transmission when a negative man is exposed to HIV by getting ****** by an HIV positive man without using a condom is around 3%!. The likelihood of exposure resulting in transmission as a result of oral sex is much lower!.
Hope this helps!. Good Luck!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can get an HIV from anything; oral/anal/anything!. There is no percentage, if he is positive, it means his positive cells may be on you!. I wouldn't freak!.!.!.if you catch it early enough, you hopefully will be fine!. Hopefully since 7months have passed without any symptoms, you are okay; but you can never be 100% positive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

let me ease your fears a little bit, yes anal is the main way hiv is transmitted, but it still only transmitts 1 out of 100 exposures, and assuming you didn't have another std that wasn't treated, you have about a 1 percent chance, the odds are still in your favor, you will probably be ok, but by the way use a condomWww@Answer-Health@Com

a "fresh case" of HIV means he probably contracted the virus within the last 6 months!.!.!.

it would be more likely for you to contract it if you were the reciever seeing as his fluids were entering you!.!.!. that is unless there was bleeding!.!.!.

the only way to know forsure is to get tested!.!.!. sorry!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are lucky enough to get through this without HIV, then please count your blessings and always use a condom!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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i'll be praying for ya!Www@Answer-Health@Com

im just giving you stats quoted!.!. im not sure if they are misinformed by many but !.!. the odds of a top person is lower than the bottom person(receiver)!. i dont know how low the odds are, but its below the reciever odds!.!.

2) unfortunatley, since it was unprotected!.!. theres a 100% ull get it!.!. or a 0% chance that you won't!.!. so thats the only 2 odds!.!.

3) why did he wait nearly 7 months to tell u this!? hiv shows up in blood using a elisa HIV test by the 4th-6th week after sex!.!. very rare it takes more than 3 months up to 6 months unless that person was a drug user, cancer patient, or has a supressed immune system!.!.! seriously, that was very promiscious and dirty of him!.!.

4) if that was ur last time since sex !.!. i would suggest u go get tested!.!. bc 3 months is almost 97% accurate unless the 3% is the rare percentage for those who were previous drug users, cancer patients!.!. so good luck 2 u!.!. i am very sorry!
don't give up!.!. just go get tested!

i think he recently contracted HIV!.!. did not knwo who gave it to him!.!. but tried to be the bigger person to call those who he had unprotected sex with!.!. so i think ur okay!.!. i hope so too!.!. im sorry ur goin thru this!.!. but next time!.!. make this a lesson!.!.!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well im totally hoping and praying for u that you don't have hiv!.!.!.!.bit i don't wanna sugarcoat things and give u false hope that u positively do not have it!.!.!.!.!.u have to remember that it only takes one time to contract a std!!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and chances are even greater when u don't use protection!!.!.!.this guy that u had intercourse with is such a butt-hole for putting you in a situation like this but u have to accept responsibility too for neither one of u protecting urselves!.!.!.!.i wish u the best of luck and hope that it's not in fact hiv!.!.!.!.!.and if it's not!!!!.!.then i hope u take this learning experience and treasure it and never have unprotected sex again with someone u r not in a committed relationship with!.!.!.cuz sumtimes u don't get second chances!.!.!.good luck guy!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I really hope things turn out okay for you!.

As far as the oral part goes, you don't have to worry about contracting HIV from that!.

The anal however was a little bit risky!.

Here are a couple of points to keep up your hopes though!.!.!.!.

Not every unprotected encounter with somebody HIV leads to a person getting HIV!.

If you are circumsized your chances of acquiring HIV from this encounter is lessened even more!. I won't go into all the specifics on the studies done in this matter but they have been done!.

You were on top, which means that your chances of acquiring HIV are less than had you been the receiver and not the giver!.
The reason for this is that a person has more sores and leisons in their anus that can accept the virus than they do on their penis!.

Now I wonder if the doctor meant that he had PHI when he said "fresh case of HIV"!. If it was PHI he was going through, than the chances of you acquiring the virus through him are quite minimal, as PHI occurs 2-4 or 2-8 weeks (depending on who you ask or what books you read) after being exposed to HIV!. You stated that your experience with this fella was 7 months ago!. If this guy is going through PHI, it means that he would have had to have contracted the virus NO MORE than 2 months ago!.

I hope this information helps you some! Break A Leg!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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