Would you date/marry someone who had HIV/AIDS?!


Question: Would you date/marry someone who had HIV/AIDS!?
I worked in an HIV/AIDS clinic for a little and I always wanted to know what people would do in this situaton!?

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Answers:
Yes!. I would!. Some of my closest friends happen to be HIV positive, and I can't think of any better people on this planet than them!. I think that as long as I was with someone I loved, then there would be no point in judging them by a virus that threatens their life!. Love is love!. If it hits you, it hits you!. And if I was truly in love with someone, no force in the verse could stop me!.

The way I see it, I'm only going to live life once!. So I'm going to pick who I want to live my life with, and I'm going to stick by them no matter what!.

And to me, it wouldn't matter how they got it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't go around town asking "Do you have HIV/AIDS!? NEXT!" I'm not like that!. I like dating people for WHO they are, not for WHAT they have!. Even still, if I was deeply inlove with him and he told me he had it, I'd get medically impregnated veruses having unprotected sex with him if we wanted a child, if we didn't, I'd use ULTRA UTLRA SUPER PROTECTIVE protection when we had sex!. If I got HIV/AIDS, oh well, you only live once!. I'd rather have it with someone I love going through it right beside me than going through it alone!.

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Yes, I would!. If a man I met romanced me, swept me off my feet, made me feel beautiful and was honest with me from the beginning, what's stopping me from falling in love with him!? I wouldn't keep myself from the opportunity just because he's HIV positive!. I know that being safe when we have sex is what will keep me from contracting the virus as well, so as long as we keep it that way, why not!? Plus, if we wanted to start a family, I would probably adopt anyway (I don't ever want to be pregnant)!. There are so many children out there who need loving homes - if he and I can provide one, then so be it!. I would never deny myself (and someone else) love because of that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Honesty plays a huge role in this lets be realistic
If Ann is dating Bob who is hiv + but Bob doesnt tell Ann because he is afraid she will leave him!. So Bob tells her after dating her for 2 years! Now Ann has feelings for Bob and she is confused!. Yet if Bob told Ann from day 1 she have most likely walked!. So honestly plays a huge role!. However if Bob didnt know he had HIV and only found out after 2 years then Ann might be infected!. Yet if Bob knew he was HIV+ and practiced safe sex Ann has a good chance she his negative!.
This is not an easy question!. But in general the public at 90% would not want to date a person who has HIV!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

date yeah i would, marry thats a different story, because if i
marry someone of course i'am going to have sex with them and how would that be possible, every time we would have sex even if it was protected it would be a life risk i would be taking and thats not something i would want to think about every time i was about to have have with someone i love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes i would because if you like someone it should not be because you want to have sex it should e because you like to be around them, and talk to them!. but on the other hand i might not because they have had sex before they were married and that means they may not care about them selves and it is hard to care about someone else if you don't care about you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have HIV and people still have sex wiyh me just very carefully!.We are people to and deserve to be treated as normal human beings!.Would you segregate someone with cancer,NO,so please understand no one asks for HIV!.It happens and you can just take the meds and live a long productive life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

no, because eventually i would want to be sexually intimate/make love after a certain amount of time in the relationship!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah!.!. i would!.!. but to have sex with them!.!. i dont know about that!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Honestly no I don't think I couldWww@Answer-Health@Com

no!.!.!.i'd honestly be too scared!.!.!.!.and i also want childrenWww@Answer-Health@Com





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