Honesty and std's?!


Question: Honesty and std's!?
have you ever fell in love, and been disgusted to find that after 2 months your new lover has given you std's !?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

how did you deal with it !?

did you stay or go !?!?

what is your opinion and advice to others !?!?!?


i was unfortunate enough to catch worms , scabies, crabs, herpes and ghonnoreah all in the same dose from the girl of my dreams ,

i didnt leave , she continued to cheat on my love , she left me in the end, then asked me back when she got dumped, then i refused ,

i feel sick , and all the people that i told , i wish i kept it a secret now , i hate it,Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
wow sorry to hear about that as for me YES>>>
not with in 2 months, but after 1!.5 years of being together my boyfriend managed to pass oral herpes onto my gentials then i discovered i had the genital type of herpes as well and oral herpes on my mouth all from him!.
i was mad at him, then at myself!. i cried for a couple of days to mourned a little for the loss of my sexual health!. then did some research and i realised it wasn't that big of a deal since its not life threatening and other people have herpes so i'm not alone!. i got over having herpes about a month after my diagnosis!. i still have days when i feel a little grose or dirty, then i try to treat myself to some thing!.
i am still living with him, but i'm still happy being with him since we love each other and now have the same std!. if i do break up with him (or vice versa), i wonder who would accept me and my herpes!.
my advice to others is to be open and honest about the stds u have!. stand up to any social stigmas out there and try not to let ignorant people beat u down!. stay monogomous with your partner, if u can't then why bother being together!. get tested regularally for stds if u are having sex or at least use condoms!.
u have to let this one go if they cheat once they have a good chance of cheating again!. look on the bright side, at least some of the stds u have are treatable and even curable!. u have to accept what happened and that u have these stds and move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have to agree with Reverend Cyn on this one!. Be conscious about who you get intimate with and be smart about it!. Most of the STDs you listed are curable!. If you were really serious about her, you could have waited until she got her infections sorted out and then got intimate with her!. The good news, though, is that they are curable for you, too!. You're stuck with herpes but then again the vast majority of people have it (about 80% of the adults and adolescents in the US, for example)!. You didn't end up with HIV or Hepatitis, so you're not in the worst shape!.

I believe you did the right thing to refuse to get back with her!. Hopefully the experience will be a reminder to be very careful with people in the future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry to hear your bad experience with your loved ones!. All sexually transmiitted diseases can be cured except viral STDs (including genital herpes)!. Genital herpes can not be cured but controlled!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know this is a tough situation for you, but it is an important lesson to learn!. Always use protection when having a sexual relationshipWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think you've just broke up with your girl!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow you learned the hard way! sorry to hear that!
BUT
thats why condoms were invented!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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