MOM is Sick?!


Question: MOM is Sick!?
My mom was just diagnosed with cancer, which she has cancer cells on her liver, the doctor suggested Chemo!. How do I cope with this and keep the positve motivation for my mom!? She has told me she's afraid and so am I!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Hi! It's okay too cry and be afraid, just remeber be there for your mother!. Don't ever leave her in a position were she is by herself!. She really need you just be there to support her, go to her doctor appointment enjoy life!. Because a person has cancer don't mean it's the end of the world!. Don't let cancer take control over your mother or your life!. God is the last person who have the last word for your mother not The doctor!. Don't get me wrong God made doctor but they are only human just like me and you!. I want you to read psalm 23 to your mother and for yourself as well!. Pray for her because God is the only person that created us!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There is no easy way to cope with this dreaded disease!. Inform yourself about liver cancer!. Can surgery be done to remove the affected parts!? The liver can be transplanted!. Is that an option!. Never give up hope until the very end!. Have you tried contacting the Cancer Centers of America!. They are excellent and can heal your mom if that is possible!. As the cancer spread!? Be there for your mom always, she is as scared as you are!. Talk about things with your mom !. You can be of tremendous help to her just by being on her side and being by her!. It is difficult I kid you not!. Best of luck to you both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am so sorry to hear of your mothers sickness!. Please speak with a counselor at school or to a therapist!. These people can help you through this difficult time!. Try to be there for your mom, let her know that you love her and want to help!. Chemo therapy is very difficult and you can expect that your mother will become very ill from the side effects!. Just knowing that you are love her will be a source of strength for her!. I wish you both well!Www@Answer-Health@Com

oh!. !. !. im so sorry to hear this! my aunt has cancer and she had to have chemo aswell!.!.!.!. it was a hard time but when your mom goes in for the treatment try to make her as comfortable as possible and maybe you can watch movies as the treatment goes along!. everyone in my family was scared too they just had to cope and keep my aunt comfortable!. just be strong for u and your mom!. good luck!!!!!! i hope i helped!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is a very emotional time!. Im sure you have lots of feelings!. I suggest you express how you feel and not bottle it up!. Having a positive outlook and your chin held high with make you feel better, however, I know that is not always possible!.

I dont know where you stand with a religious view, but turning to Christ always helps me in times of need!. He is the ultimate healer!.

Please dont be bitter or hate anyone!. This was no one's fault!. Things just happen and they all have their reasons (some of which we'll never know)!.

Im sorry about your mom's diagnosis!. I hope everything turns out ok!. Be supportiveWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm sorry to hear about your mom's diagnosis!. I know it's a scary time!. Does she have someone to go to dr appmts with!? I found it helpful to have someone with me so there was an "extra" pair of ears hearing what the dr was saying!. Alot of the time I felt shell shocked at my appointments and didn't remember to ask questions, etc!. Help around the house and with meals when she's not feeling well and tired from her treatments!. Maybe go with her to her first chemo treatment to support her!. It's a little harder the first time when you don't know what to expect!. Find a local support group if possible!.

You can also go to these two sites and sign her up for cards and letters:
http://www!.angels2theheart!.com and http://www!.chemoangels!.com
I received so many wonderful cards and letters from caring volunteers while going through chemo!.

If you go to http://www!.thelydiaprogject!.org you can have a handmade tote sent to her to use at her treatments!.

I wish your mom the best!.

http://www!.thesurvivormovie!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com





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