Anal Sex help?!
Question: Anal Sex help!?
I would like to try Anal sex with my Boyfriend of 6 years!. Can anyone help me out by telling me if there is pain invovled, and what to do to make it sucessful!. Any other tips would also be helpful!. Thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Some good advice here already but just add in a few things!.
1: Do not use Vasoline!. The petroleum jelly can harbor bacteria and is harsh on the mucous membranes, stick to water based lubricants!.
2: Using a finger or small toy first will allow you to get used to the feelings and sensations of things before moving on to penetration!. However, when inserting things, don't stab like you are pressing a button as this will elicit a natural contraction of the muscles there!. Instead, press the pad of the finger against the anus and slowly kind of roll it in!. Despite what porn would have you believe, one can't just immediately shove it in there and it will work!.
3: Keep applying lube throughout the act!. The lube will break down and be absorbed as time progresses, keep putting more on to avoid unwanted friction!.
4: Keep it safe and consensual, communicate throughout the entire thing and as was stated!.!.!. you control the action, speed, and depth, not him!.
5: Position that offers better control-him on back, you on top!. this way you control the thrusting and he can't get overzealous
6: Try to use the restroom beforehand to ensure that there won't be any "accidents"
7: Stay safe-STDs can still be transmitted, but if the two of you have both been tested you can go without!. However, in this case cleanup will be simpler if you use one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1: Do not use Vasoline!. The petroleum jelly can harbor bacteria and is harsh on the mucous membranes, stick to water based lubricants!.
2: Using a finger or small toy first will allow you to get used to the feelings and sensations of things before moving on to penetration!. However, when inserting things, don't stab like you are pressing a button as this will elicit a natural contraction of the muscles there!. Instead, press the pad of the finger against the anus and slowly kind of roll it in!. Despite what porn would have you believe, one can't just immediately shove it in there and it will work!.
3: Keep applying lube throughout the act!. The lube will break down and be absorbed as time progresses, keep putting more on to avoid unwanted friction!.
4: Keep it safe and consensual, communicate throughout the entire thing and as was stated!.!.!. you control the action, speed, and depth, not him!.
5: Position that offers better control-him on back, you on top!. this way you control the thrusting and he can't get overzealous
6: Try to use the restroom beforehand to ensure that there won't be any "accidents"
7: Stay safe-STDs can still be transmitted, but if the two of you have both been tested you can go without!. However, in this case cleanup will be simpler if you use one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ummm!.!.!.!.i'll be honest and say it all depends on his size!. If he is normal and not to big, great but if he's big, iwouldnt!. Its not pleasurable if he's huge!. In my experience (long time ago), my ex was very good at it b/c we used lubricant and warm water!. He went very slow and before he started he would relax the muscle with his finger first!. Make sure you do all your foreplay before b/c once you have anal sex you dont want to stick his you know what elsewhere!. I also made sure i wasnt fulld ownt here b/c that would be gross!. Its painful at first yes but not bad if you go really slow and get the muscle relaxed and he isnt super huge!. I enjoye it with him but to be hoenst it wasnt on the top of my list and we didnt do it all the time!. It did burn afterwards b/c you tear a little bit each time and it heals!. Its something you can do once in awhile but i wouldnt do it every night type of thing bc you dont want to damage themuscle or make it loose down there!. I also did it with this other guy 20 years ago and it wasnt bad!. But its been so long now and iwont do it anymore b/c ive really lost interest and dont feel like going through some pain!. Its not bad really just depends on the guy and how big he is!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
In order to have anal sex correctly you must be totalllllllllllly relaxed!. You cant tense up or it will really hurt!. Relax your but muscles and use Lube!. Vaseline or Ky jelly either or will work and have him stick a finger in first just to loosen it up a little and make it easier!. Once your ready tell him to go slow and steady until its in! If your uncomfortable tel him take it out and try it on your knees!. If you still dont like it then dont try!.
=]Www@Answer-Health@Com
=]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ok Listen closely!.!.!. This is what me and my man did!. I got on my fours and he started playin wit my puss and then he gets me all excited and starts using my ********* on me with sum oil and then he just slips it in my butt and its all good after that!. When you can take a 9 incher in the butt that makes you an a amazzin woman!. Good Luck and relax and have a couple of drinks b4 too!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeah it can be painful!. start very slowly, you should be the one controling penetration not him!. lots and lots of lube!. you should probably get some small toys to start with because unless he is very small you will be in tears and not enjoy it at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Use Lube!. Vaseline or Ky jelly either or will work and have him stick a finger in first just to loosen it up a little and make it easier!. This could b fun if yall do it right!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com