I have been talking to a very nice man on the phone and I have....how do I tell !


Question: I have been talking to a very nice man on the phone and I have!.!.!.!.how do I tell him!?
Hi, I have genital warts and for the first time in a long time I am interested in someone!. I am scared to tell him but I know I have to I just don't know when the right time is!? We've only been talking for about 2 wks every other day!. He knows just every other negative thing because I wanted to be honest right away!.!.!.about depression and child with Touretts' Syndrome!. I don't want to lose him before I get a chance to be with him!. I am really scared and a part of me is afraid to meet him because I know how I am!.!.!.I'll tell him!. I don't want to tell him on the first date !. Plz help!? Does anyone else have just about the same situation that can relate to this!? Thanks everyone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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My brother caught it from his cheeting wife!. @#$@*@ !!! That is wht I think of her!. LOL
He is not married 2 her n e more, Duh!.!.!.He waits until the relationship is serious enuf for sex then tells women to warn them!. He has only dates 2 women and both were shocked but understood!. They r very cautious!.!.!.!.I would wait until it is needed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think that you should tell him!. you should wait till it get serious!. then u tell him but dont have sex till you doWww@Answer-Health@Com

I suggest that if and when you and this person start discussing being together, or when you start kissing, stop and tell him you want to talk about possible STD's that either of you may have!. Remember that many people lie about having an STD, so you can't always believe them!.

But for yourself you need to come right out with it and state what you have and how your potential partner can protect themselves!. Don't be afraid!. If he leaves because of this, then it is better for you to know before you get too involved emotionally!.

I would wait until you meet him!. Many men are interesting to talk to, but sometimes you may not feel sexually attracted to them when you meet!. No big deal, you may just have a good friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't think I would tell a guy before things got!.!. hot and heavy!.!. if you know what I mean!. Until there is any touching below the belt (or any obvious desire to go there), he does not need to know!. This is your chance to show him your personality!.!. without him knowing about the infection!. Of course, don't wait TOO long!.!. i!.e!. over six months would be cruel to him!.

Ps!. I found out I had them during the time I was dating my bf!.!. about 4 or 6 months in!? I was so scared to tell him!!!! Part of me didn't want to but I knew I had to!. So I did!. I was crying!. He was understanding!. So far he hasn't gotten anything!.!. or else he's not showing symptoms!. We use condoms most of the time!. We've been together for over a year!.

I should add this: I believe that if a relationship is meant to be, it'll happen, and if it's not, then it won't!. That means that in the long run, it won't matter when you tell him!. If he is a caring and understanding guy, even if you told him now, he may decide that he still wants to get to know you!. So, whatever you decide to do, try to keep that in mind!.

Do what feels right to you!. I don't think there's one right answer to this question!. The only thing is to obviously make sure to tell him before you get sexually involved!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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