I'm really hurt and confused ...do i have this disease? ?!
Question: I'm really hurt and confused !.!.!.do i have this disease!? !?
i have black bumps and scars down there after i shave!.!.!.i thought it was just razor burn but my boyfriend said it is herpes and that i most likely have it becase i am black (he is white)!. I've never had sex but he told me blacks are born with a higher tendency to get herpes and AIDS because of their promiscuous behavior!. he thinks it herpes because i squeezed one and dirt came out of it!. i feel embarrased and ashamed that i could have given him herpes now! where do i go to help myself and what to i do to make it up to him for giving him a horrible disease (i am only 13 and he is 15)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
no offense, but you should have your brain checked, cus that's just stupid!.
that's also really gross!.
you're 13, stop doing gross things like that! do you want to ruin your body so young!?
instead of listening to your stupid bf about genetics, talk to someone with brains or do some research before you go around trying to make something up to him when herpes is something HE probably gave YOU!
P!.s!. have you tried bathing to get rid of the "dirt"!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
that's also really gross!.
you're 13, stop doing gross things like that! do you want to ruin your body so young!?
instead of listening to your stupid bf about genetics, talk to someone with brains or do some research before you go around trying to make something up to him when herpes is something HE probably gave YOU!
P!.s!. have you tried bathing to get rid of the "dirt"!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm guessing it's ingrown hairs!. Blacks are not born with a tendency for any kind of STD, that's strictly from choices to fool around with disreputable people without protection, and that knows no gender or ethnicity!. If you've never had sex with anyone but him, you didn't give him anything!.
Use protection ALWAYS!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Use protection ALWAYS!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is probably razor burn or ingrown hairs!. If you have never had sex then you dont have herpes!.!. That should not even be in your head I don't know why he would say that!. Black people have thicker hair and since the hair is already thick down there to begin with I'm sure its just from shaving!. Talk to your parents!.!. Tell them that after you shaved this came about!.!. if its serious they will take you to the doctor =] Good luck and don't worry too much because its not disease! Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please dump the jerky boyfriend!. That pretty much sounds like one of the most racist comments I've heard in a long time and just not true!.If you haven't had sex you don't have genital herpes!. It probably is razor burn and what came out was the hair follicle, not to worry!.
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
If you have never had sex with this dumbass of a boyfriend!.!.then you haven't given him herpes!.!. he is full of crap!.!. the best thing you could do is send his sorry little racist *** out the door!.!. you probably do just have blackheads!.!. probably from shaving!.
I would have knocked his running lights out for making that stupid, insensitive and highly racist comment to me!.!. what a loser!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would have knocked his running lights out for making that stupid, insensitive and highly racist comment to me!.!. what a loser!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
He is stupid!. Why are you sleeping with him when you're only 13!? If you're responsible enough to be sleeping with someone, you're responsible enough to go to a gynecologist!. Go there and ask them if you're really worried!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You shouldn't be sleeping with anyone at your age!
There are cures for herpes!. Idk if STDs are more prominent with one racial group than another due to genetic make up, but get that taken care of, and stop sleeping with people untill your older!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are cures for herpes!. Idk if STDs are more prominent with one racial group than another due to genetic make up, but get that taken care of, and stop sleeping with people untill your older!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Watch out! He probably has herpes and he only would say that to make you feel like it's your fault!. If you have never had sex then you cant have it!. Don't let him eat you or he can give it to you!. Stop shaving - you might want to do that when you are older, but if you do too much then you will be allergic to the razor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your boyfriend doesn't know what he is talking about!. He seriously needs to inform himself before he goes scaring the crap out of people like that!. It is very unlikely that you have any kind of STD if you have never had sex!. You can not get an STD because of your race!. You can get an STD from unprotected sex, and occasionally mothers who are HIV positive will pass it along to their child but that doesn't even always happen!. I'm going to go with ingrown hairs!.!.!.and you can get rid of that by making sure that you don't shave with a dull razor, put lotion (non scented) on the area after you shave it!.!.!.and use an exfoliating cream to keep the dead skin away!. Shame on him for making you feel like that and PS!.!.!.if you are only 13 I really hope you are not doing anything sexual with him!. You are way too young for that my dear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It really makes me mad that someone who claims to like you would talk to you like that!.
Now comes "the speech"!. If you're afraid you have herpes and yet you say you've never had sex, you must be pretty close to doing so and at 13 you shouldn't be doing that either!. If you've never messed around with anyone else then you wouldn't have given it to him, he'd have given it to you!. However, you don't have herpes!. Herpes causes very painful blisters, and it would be too painful to squeeze and black stuff wouldn't come out of them!.
Shaving does cause bumps and black hair is very coarse and curly, so it could very well be an ingrown hair that you saw!. It's not likely you'd have a blackhead in that area, because the skin isn't oily!. Stop shaving, at least for a while and let it heal up!.
And find a new boyfriend who shows you some respect!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com
Now comes "the speech"!. If you're afraid you have herpes and yet you say you've never had sex, you must be pretty close to doing so and at 13 you shouldn't be doing that either!. If you've never messed around with anyone else then you wouldn't have given it to him, he'd have given it to you!. However, you don't have herpes!. Herpes causes very painful blisters, and it would be too painful to squeeze and black stuff wouldn't come out of them!.
Shaving does cause bumps and black hair is very coarse and curly, so it could very well be an ingrown hair that you saw!. It's not likely you'd have a blackhead in that area, because the skin isn't oily!. Stop shaving, at least for a while and let it heal up!.
And find a new boyfriend who shows you some respect!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com
please please don't hang around that guy anymore!. he doesn't sound like a nice person and he says things that are untrue and meant to hurt you!. you sound like a smart person and you are way too good for someone that puts you down to feel better!.
Blacks don't have a higher tendency to get herpes and AIDS, they are not borne with this!. Herpes and AIDS are spread through sex!. The decision to have sex is behavioral, influenced by many things, but its not an innate quality of a race or ethnicity!.
now, it sounds like its NOT herpes, BUT herpes is a disease that can be spread if you come into contact with a blister of someone else who is infected!. IF he has herpes, and you guys are fooling around (which it sounds like you are), you can become infected!. However, herpes doesn't squeeze out "dirt"
Please get rid of him as a boyfriend and as a friend!. stop shaving and she if that helps!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Blacks don't have a higher tendency to get herpes and AIDS, they are not borne with this!. Herpes and AIDS are spread through sex!. The decision to have sex is behavioral, influenced by many things, but its not an innate quality of a race or ethnicity!.
now, it sounds like its NOT herpes, BUT herpes is a disease that can be spread if you come into contact with a blister of someone else who is infected!. IF he has herpes, and you guys are fooling around (which it sounds like you are), you can become infected!. However, herpes doesn't squeeze out "dirt"
Please get rid of him as a boyfriend and as a friend!. stop shaving and she if that helps!. Www@Answer-Health@Com