My GF made fun of my moms disease??!


Question: My GF made fun of my moms disease!?!?
My mom has Fibromyalgia!. Not important as to what it is, and I'm sure some of you will respond with 'its a made up disease'!. yada yada yada!.

Anyways!.!.my mom has Fibromyalgia and my GF last night says to me, "Fibromyalgia! Thats so fake!."

So I said, "That really pisses me off that you said that in front of me when you know my mom has it!."

So she says, "Thats my opinion!."

What should I do here!? She always has a comeback whenever I standup for what I believe in!.

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Answers:
I am so sorry that your mom has this!. I know it can be painful!. I know some people that have it!. That is totally wrong of your GF to say that!. Have her talk to a DR or you can just say to her that if you are not going to support me then we need to spend soem time apart until you can be with me!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

She may hold the opinion that it's fake, but it's not a matter of opinion, it is a medical reality that Fibromyalgia is very real!. In my opinion, she sounds like a brat with no respect for you, and maybe none for herself!. I myself have fibro, related to some other conditions!. As an adult, I dumped friends , even lifelong ones, who acted so ignorant!. Life is short, but now is a good time to re-evaluate that relationship!. Remember that you can chose your friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Fibromyalgia (FM) is a disorder classified by the presence of chronic widespread pain and tactile allodynia!.[1] While the criteria for such an entity have not yet been thoroughly developed, the recognition that fibromyalgia involves more than just pain has led to the frequent use of the term "fibromyalgia syndrome"!. It is not contagious, and recent studies suggest that people with fibromyalgia may be genetically predisposed!.[2] The disorder is not directly life-threatening!. The degree of symptoms may vary greatly from day to day with periods of flares (severe worsening of symptoms) or remission; however, the disorder is generally perceived as non-progressive!.[3]

Show her that and tell her its a real dieses and she should f off and then break up with herWww@Answer-Health@Com

First you should document yourself in depth about the disease!.Then the next time this ignorant egotistical brat makes one of her stupid statements you should ask her how it is possible for a human to fake the absence of an important chemical compound in his central nervous system and whether she thinks that Ari Onassis, Lou Gehrig and Stephen Hawking all deserve Oscars for faking the disease!.
And if you decide to go on with this noble hearted person you have some surprises coming in the future!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm not sure why you would want to be with such an insensitive person!. Have a talk with her and tell her that if she truly cares about you then she should care about your family also, which means not mocking your moms medical condition!. It sounds like she can dish it out but she can't take it!. If she doesn't value your feelings enough to censor her mouth, she's probably not worth your time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know fibromyalgia isn't fake, but I do not know anything about the disease!?!?
Like what it is!.
But I would just ask her why she thinks it's fake, and tell her like it is your mother, and you watch her suffer for it, and know it is not fake!!
Just tell her how you feel about it, and if it bugs you that much, then you should break up with her!. I know it sounds like it would be stupid to break up with her over that, but if she doesn't care for your feelings or sensitive areas, then she doesn't care much about you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You have to stand up for your family!. And tell her that she is really crossing the line and she needs to respect you and your family members!.

Everyone has an opinion, but with this kind of situation and with all situations actually, she has to use her head before saying something especially if it is involving someone who is very dear to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that would piss me off too!.

Talk to her about it, and be firm about how you feel about her talking about your mom that way!.


If she doesn't shape up!.!.!.!.!.dump her!.!.!.!.you dont need someone that cant be understand and consider of other people's feelings!. Cuz sooner or later you will need her to take care of you when you are sick!.!.!.and who knows if she will make you feel better!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

My mother-in-law had it!. She passed away, actually, not coz of that though!. It's quite real!. I hate when people say it's fake!. It's like saying lupus is fake or blood cancer is fake!. Tell her that next time she says something so insensitive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your girlfriend sounds like an immature *****!. You should dump her and find someone who has a little compassion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

shes not a nice gal, have a nice talk with her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dump her!!!!!!!!!!!! Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think maybe u should talk to her but if she's rude maybe she's not the right one for youWww@Answer-Health@Com

Fibromylagia is a real physical debilitating disease!. it's painful and exhausting!. and muscles!. are weak!.

Fibromyalgia is a chronic condition characterized by widespread pain in your muscles, ligaments and tendons, as well as fatigue and multiple tender points



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